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anonyWest7926
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PathStep 5 Compassion hearts18 Forum posts3 Forum upvotes5 Current upvotes5 Age GroupAdult Last activeFebruary, 2023 Member sinceAugust 13, 2017
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Finding Friends is Hard
Friendship Support / by anonyWest7926
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February 8th, 2023
...See more Anyone else have the hardest time making friends?? I know I’m a big part of the problem, but I see other people who have friends and do fun things together and it’s hard not to compare. I am so afraid of being seen or being authentic that I sabotage my ability to build connections with others. It’s so scary to let others see the real you.
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Marriage is hard
Relationship Stress / by anonyWest7926
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February 8th, 2023
...See more I’ve been married for almost 5 years and my marriage is really struggling. At the beginning of December I caught my husband in a lie that had been going on for basically our whole relationship. I felt really betrayed and hurt. We are trying to move past it but we’ve had other obstacles as well. I’ve really struggled with anxiety and I don’t feel like he accepts or understands that part of me. I am going to therapy to try and get help, but sometimes I just feel like I can’t talk to anyone honestly about what I’m feeling. I’m scared that my marriage is going to end and it feels like I can’t envision a future with my husband anymore. I’m scared that we might be better apart than we are together, but I don’t know if it’s just a rough patch or if it’s a sign that we both need to be done. I’m heartbroken. I just want to go back to being with the person I love, but it feels like there’s been so much damage done on both ends. I feel guilty for wondering if we’re better apart and terrified at the thought of being alone and having to start over. If we get divorced, I never want to go through anything like this ever again.
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