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My boyfriend quitting drugs ruined my relationship
Addiction Support / by arb7s
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 May 12th, 2020
...See more Hey everyone. I came to this thread because I figured more people could help me. Im torn all to pieces. My boyfriend has smoke marijuana heavily for a long time. He has been very addicted and used it as a crutch to not deal with his emotions. He finally moved away from here and his friends so that he could quit for himself and for our relationship. Well he left Friday and things were fine and Saturday he woke up and sabotaged and destroyed everything. Suddenly I went from being his everything to him not caring about me. Doesnt want anything to do with me. He quit cold turkey. I am giving him space but Im not sure I will even ever talk to him again. We were together for over two years and planned to move away together after Im done with school. He left because he said he couldnt be what I need while hes here and smoking weed all the time and he wanted to have a life with me. How can everything just go away overnight?
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Why did this even happen?
Relationship Stress / by arb7s
Last post
 June 28th, 2019
...See more Hey everyone. My boyfriend and I were fine and he moved 8 hours away on Friday. Things were still okay. But Saturday we fought and he did something awful and I got on his Snapchat and he went ballistic. He is addicted to weed and he quit cold turkey on Friday when he moved. I made the mistake of blowing up his phone but I was really upset. Today he talked to me all day like normal and stuff and then I mentioned something about if we get back together and he said no Im done. He also told me I dont make him happy which is very contradicting to everything he said last week leading up to Saturday. He has also made a point to reassure me multiple times he isnt talking to anyone else and doesnt want to date anyone else. He hasnt deleted pictures. He changed his Facebook picture because he said mine isnt of us. Which its not. Im so confused.
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