Why did this even happen?
Hey everyone.
My boyfriend and I were fine and he moved 8 hours away on Friday. Things were still okay. But Saturday we fought and he did something awful and I got on his Snapchat and he went ballistic.
He is addicted to weed and he quit cold turkey on Friday when he moved. I made the mistake of blowing up his phone but I was really upset.
Today he talked to me all day like normal and stuff and then I mentioned something about if we get back together and he said no Im done. He also told me I dont make him happy which is very contradicting to everything he said last week leading up to Saturday.
He has also made a point to reassure me multiple times he isnt talking to anyone else and doesnt want to date anyone else. He hasnt deleted pictures. He changed his Facebook picture because he said mine isnt of us. Which its not.
Im so confused.
@arb7s
Hey there, hopefully you are doing well. There's a few things I would like to point out;
Today he talked to me all day like normal and stuff and then (This sounds as if he forgot about all of the things he told you...) I mentioned something about if we get back together and he said no Im done. (Hmm his response sounds like he wanted to stop the conversation there by interupting what you were saying) He also told me I dont make him happy (I have an issue with this. He is basically blaming you for his unhappiness when in reality it has nothing to do with you. He is projecting on you, and is so unfair of him to even say this) which is very contradicting to everything he said last week leading up to Saturday.
He has also made a point to reassure me multiple times he isnt talking to anyone else and doesnt want to date anyone else. He hasnt deleted pictures. He changed his Facebook picture because he said mine isnt of us. Which its not. (Honestly? This guy has way too many issues, its like he talks to you normally and then he starts being rude. This is his way of sabotaging things, its so unfortunate he is behaving like this)
Im so confused.
