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bananajoe910
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PathStep 2 Compassion hearts22 Forum posts4 Forum upvotes7 Current upvotes7 Age GroupAdult Last activeApril, 2023 Member sinceJanuary 24, 2019
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Im about to breakup
Relationship Stress / by bananajoe910
Last post
 April 15th, 2023
...See more im about to breakup with my boyfriend and i wrote down what i will say cause im very nervous , could you tell me if it sounds mean or lacks in someway. ” I want to breakup,this isnt easy for me since i still love you, but i think we dont match well together. ive thought about it for awhile and came up with alot of reasons, but the bottom line is that i think we are too different in too many ways to make it work. I feel like you share some of my feelings aswell. Its unreal for me to think about leaving you but i feel like i need to do this. I had alot of fun dating you and made some good memories with you , your a nice person but we just dont work well as a couple. After a bit of time i hope we can still be friends. ”
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Boyfriend issues(vent,long)
Relationship Stress / by bananajoe910
Last post
 March 26th, 2023
...See more Sorry about this but i had to vent somewhere even though i think no one will care. Ive been in a relationship for 3 years and for a month or two ive had thoughts of breaking up with him that keep getting more prevalent over time. Im not sure where these feelings exactly came from, i think its because allthough i like spending time with him, we are polar opposites so our personalities and tastes and beliefs are different which is a struggle. This made me question though why did it only been bothering me now, am i only feelijg this way since im bored of the relationship and want a way out or didnt really listen to him for 3 years and now im realizing it. I dont even know which one of those or the 100 other reasons i can think of it can be, but who knows maybe im making all this up without knowing. Anyway,Before he asked me out i had known him for a while and i had just went though a breakup so when he asked me out i was in such a need of a connection with someone i told myself i liked him in that way too, eventhough i only liked him as a friend. I thought i loved him since i needed to love someone, cause just like then and now, the though of having no one is scarier than the thought of being with someone i dont love. Sometimes though i feel like im making this all up. Yet i feel im making a giant mistake if i would break up with him. It feels like a unreal thought, almost like a dream.What if i dont find anyone else or im just overthinking everything. Im too scared to talk to him about my emotions on this, yet i feel like he wants something else in this relatinship too. Its all so confusing and i dont know what emotions or thoughts to trust,i keep thinking about it and i cant come to a proper conclusion. But in my heart i feel like i know i have to break up with him. I feel like im a bad person for feeling any of this.
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