Im about to breakup
im about to breakup with my boyfriend and i wrote down what i will say cause im very nervous , could you tell me if it sounds mean or lacks in someway.
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I want to breakup,this isnt easy for me since i still love you, but i think we dont match well together.
ive thought about it for awhile and came up with alot of reasons,
but the bottom line is that i think we are too different in too many ways to make it work.
I feel like you share some of my feelings aswell.
Its unreal for me to think about leaving you but i feel like i need to do this.
I had alot of fun dating you and made some good memories with you , your a nice person but we just dont work well as a couple.
After a bit of time i hope we can still be friends.
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It is nice, I don't think it sounds mean or it lacks really, but it does sound sorta like there's an underlying feeling of wanting it to work here (in my opinion). Idk the entire situation but if you really want to break up, and it's serious, then you should be more cut to the chase. Have you two discussed this problem before? Nonetheless, I hope everything goes okay for you two, and I'm sorry this happened 😣☹
Hi,
The way your break up note written, I feel like you really like him and do not want to lose him. Have you discussed with him about your differences? Have you talked to him in person about it?
@bananajoe910
my girlfriend broke up with me today three weeks ago. She had her reasons, but she also said she fell out of love with me. When I asked her why, she gave me irrelevant reasons. A week later I had a call with a mutual friend of ours and it seems like she told her different reasons than she told me.
Just don’t lie to him. It screws up the head pretty badly. Otherwise he’s gonna keep thinks what he could’ve done to make it work or what did he do so that you had to brake up with him? Was it something he said? The way he acted that one day? It can be anything. So just be honest if you want him to improve.
Hi,
I think it's a very good thing that you are trying to be open and honest with him. If a relationship isn't working on your end you shouldn't try to fake anything, because your mental health matters too. It does seem like you wished it to work out though, so I hope things get better <3