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bectotalwreck
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Relationship Stress / by bectotalwreck
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 February 3rd, 2022
...See more I am going to be totally candid, sincere, and honest with you. You pointed out some things to me that I have heard before, from only one other person. I didn’t believe that person. I see now that I have been in a destructive trend. I believe the things you said to me, about me. Depression and anxiety have been crippling me, way more than I knew or could have imagined. This is not an excuse. Not an apology. It is just the reality. I would not have gotten the help I needed if it weren’t for you. Thank you for helping me come to that realization. I will forever cherish you for that. Honestly. You may have saved my life. That does not mean the way I have been treated by you is fair, or just, or appropriate. Things happened. I can only control myself. The way you treated me led me where I am today. I’m not angry. Good things are on my horizon. This isn’t a game to me. I’m not going to resist anything, or beg and plead, or be reactive. This isn’t about money or material things or even love, to me. I am one person, alone in this world, and you helped me see that. Thank you, again.
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Relationship Stress / by bectotalwreck
Last post
 December 28th, 2021
...See more Hi, I’m new. I believe my husband is having a midlife crisis and it’s wrecking my mental health in the process. I don’t have many people that I can confide in. I’m having a really hard time watching him self-destruct. I am getting mental health care for myself, as I feel that is all I can do. He is not receptive to getting any care. I’m pretty lost and confused. There is a lot I don’t understand and my patience is waning. Things are very hot and cold… one day he says he loves me and asks how I’m doing, the next day I am the root of everything wrong in his life. I’m so disappointed.
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