Hi Group
Hi, I’m new. I believe my husband is having a midlife crisis and it’s wrecking my mental health in the process. I don’t have many people that I can confide in.
I’m having a really hard time watching him self-destruct. I am getting mental health care for myself, as I feel that is all I can do. He is not receptive to getting any care. I’m pretty lost and confused. There is a lot I don’t understand and my patience is waning. Things are very hot and cold… one day he says he loves me and asks how I’m doing, the next day I am the root of everything wrong in his life. I’m so disappointed.
@bectotalwreck
Hello Total, welcome to the group! I am sorry to hear that your husband is struggling with a midlife crisis. It can be very hard to want to help someone and love them and because of their struggle they lash out at you. I would definitely look into this forum sub-community some more and see what people have for ideas and different things that you could do to potentially help and feel safer. I hope things start looking up for you and your husband!
Best of Wishes,
Jet01