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blueBlueberry488
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I want to live on my own
Family & Caregivers / by blueBlueberry488
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 March 19th, 2021
...See more I'm 25, me and my mum live together. My parents separated when I was young, that never really bugged me. I share a room with my mum since then and I mean when I was younger I didn't really mind. My brother and sister both had their own rooms but we couldn't afford more then that so I sucked it up. Over the years we have travelled and moved around and due to that we always had to share. Both my brother and sister have their own lives and I kind of feel like because I'm the youngest my mum stuck herself to me. Over the last few years I have gotten more irritated that I don't have my own space. I want to live on my own but how do I leave the person who has worked 2 jobs for me ? I want to be selfish and go and do my own thing but I know it's going to hurt her. How do i leave her on her own? I'm struggling with guilt because I feel like I owe her but I want to live my life. I want to be able to control my life fully and not have her dictate certain things. She is a very hard headed person and I don't grumble. I want to bring a guy back home, I want a relationship but is that being hypocrite ? Not wanting to be with my mother and being in a relationship? I mean I would still have to think about the other person. I don't know what to do, all I know is that I'm not happy.
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Giving attention to people that don't deserve it
Relationship Stress / by blueBlueberry488
Last post
 April 19th, 2021
...See more I have a bad habit of giving attention to people who don't see me as a priority. So they would only contact me only when they want to. How do i stop talking to them? I know that unfortunately it's the attention that I like and not the person but I just can't stop my self and I hate it. I hate that I give in to the attention because I know that I don't mean anything to them and I hate that. I have been working on not answering back and I know it's training myself and it will take time. How do i stop ?
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