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Giving attention to people that don't deserve it

User Profile: blueBlueberry488
blueBlueberry488 March 18th, 2021

I have a bad habit of giving attention to people who don't see me as a priority. So they would only contact me only when they want to. How do i stop talking to them? I know that unfortunately it's the attention that I like and not the person but I just can't stop my self and I hate it. I hate that I give in to the attention because I know that I don't mean anything to them and I hate that. I have been working on not answering back and I know it's training myself and it will take time. How do i stop ?

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User Profile: Asher
Asher April 19th, 2021

Hi blue,

It's understandable to want attention from people and not giving into the person when they text for attention. Small steps to answering can be a great start. For example, not texting back for a day and then getting through another day not texting back at all. Hope this helps.