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bravrface345
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Anger issues with family
Family & Caregivers / by bravrface345
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 January 15th, 2022
...See more I've got anger issues. I am unable to control my anger and end up hurting people with my angry words, most of the times my parents and my husband. I feel like a monster after that. I am unable to make them understand why am I angry. I feel like my anger is justified in the moment, but my actions bring out the ugliest side of me. I shout, throw things, hit others, cry, try to hurt myself and just say really mean things to my famil and feel angrier when they try to reason. Some of my issues are related to my parents giving priority to others (relatives and friends) over me and my needs, but they say I am an adult now and I need to stop being so needy and selfish. I don't know if I am selfish I just feel the need to connect and want someone to understand what I go through. I feel lonely and abandoned at times. I have a good job and earn well. I contribute equally financially towards rent and other expenses of my home and I am not dependent on my husband or his family for anything. I just feel that they don't appreciate me enough, rather they make me feel inferior for being a woman. I feel less than my husband, despite being from the same college and earning more than him. I feel insecure because of this. I feel like nobody appreciates me. My husband supports me in everything, he even speaks to his parents for me, but I feel that it's insufficient because of their behaviour towards me. They expect me to cook, not go out a lot, observe their traditions, and wear the clothes they want me to wear. None of these things are expected from my husband. My insecurity from this flares up at the smallest things and I just erupt like a volcano with all the past incidents. I don't know how to deal with my insecurities and control my anger. I don't want to ruin my relationship with my parents and husband.
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