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brightDime6765
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PathStep 93 Compassion hearts153 Forum posts23 Forum upvotes50 Current upvotes50 Age GroupTeen Last activeOctober, 2026 Member sinceSeptember 13, 2024
Bio

I like to read and hang out with my friends for fun.

My favorite book would have to be The Darkest Minds

My favorite movie is The Notebook. 

I want to overcome my fear of abandonment, I also want to get over my anger and hurt because of my biological mom abandoning me. 




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Am I Wrong for Wanting my Own Life?
Family & Caregivers / by brightDime6765
Last post
 Friday
...See more Hey. Am I Wrong for Wanting my own life? As the oldest kid my parents are always wanting me to take care of my younger siblings. To the point where I have almost no life outside of my house.  My day consists of waking up, getting ready for school, waking up my siblings, getting them ready for school (which 90% of the time involves some sort of argument with them fighting or them not wanting to do what I say bc they dont want to listen to me bc I don't have authority). Then I go to school. I go pick up my siblings. then they do homework and that normally consists of me arguing with both of them to do their homework and them not doing it and playing game on their computers. then I make dinner and somehow manage to shower and all that stuff in after I clean up the kitchen and do dishes and clean the living room from all the toys from the 2 year old. then I wake up and do it all over again.  and you'd think weekends is break time. no my parents are home and yet I still have to take care of them and my siblings. its one thing to help but what I'm doing isn't help. I'm so tired but everytime I explain it to my parents they for some reason don't understand and say I'm being selfish. 
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Idk
Relationship Stress / by brightDime6765
Last post
 August 20th
...See more The quote that really resonates with me rn is one I want to share. A rose in the hands of those who had no intention of keeping her.
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Cheating?!
Relationship Stress / by brightDime6765
Last post
 August 21st
...See more So, long story short. My boyfriend of almost 3 years broke up with me.  I had a feeling for these almost 3 years that something was going on  but I didn't know how to say it to him. He said he'd be cheating the whole time we were together leading up to the breakup he was flirting with other girls and our whole relationship he'd laugh and have a good time with other people but as soon as I came around it was like he was quiet and like his best friend died (metaphor). And he was super insecure about what I wore and who I talked to. So no crop tops or shorts for me. and I couldn't talk to a single guy I was friends with without him thinking they wanted me or I wanted them. to the point the last couple months almost everyday fights Abt him accusing me of cheating. He always talked to me like I was a child and put me down in front of other girls (I never noticed this until now, looking back). also last year he confessed to "looking at other girls." when we broke up he confessed to trying to get with this girl who we had a fight Abt previously of me saying he was trying to get with her and him saying no. then he goes into this thing Abt how he knowingly would cause fights bc he knew I'd cave and feel bad and give him what he wanted (which what my friends told me he was doing but I didn't listen). then he says he was cheating the whole time we were together with so many girls he cant keep count then started bragging to me Abt what he was doing with them without saying names. the part that makes me feel the most like an idiot is he said I'd be with him and the girls would walk by and they'd make faces at each other in suggestion to what they'd be doing later. 
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I Have No Idea What To Do At This Point
Relationship Stress / by brightDime6765
Last post
 February 20th
...See more This seems like something easily solvable but I just don't know what to do.  Basically, my boyfriend confessed a couple days ago to "looking at other girls" as like interested. After he told me this he said he did this "a year ago" and has stopped in that same timeframe of a year ago. He says that he never wants to break up with me and he loves me a lot. That he doesn't want to be with anyone but me. He also says he didn't cheat on me in any way and he didn't try to talk to anyone and he isn't talking to anyone. That I can go through his phone to check but I don't want to go through his phone because that's a lot.  Right now, I have an inner war in my head going on. On one hand I want to break up with him because how can I trust him after this. Like am I not enough for you? What am I doing that makes you want to be with someone else? Am I not pretty enough for you? Am I not doing enough? Like why did you feel the need to do that? Also why did you wait a year to tell me? Were you talking to someone? Are you still talking to someone? Did you try to get with someone and it didn't work out? On the other hand I want to forgive him because in a way this is him trying to move our relationship into a "more mature,"  long term relationship instead of a short term, immature one.  I love him so so so so much. Like I see my whole future with him. I don't want to let that all go. We've been together for almost 3 years so I don't want to quit on that. 
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This is a Vent Thing (its also related to family so idk if it belongs here)
Relationship Stress / by brightDime6765
Last post
 October 21st, 2025
...See more This is a lot so bear with me please.  So lately it feels like my family is deteriorating. Well its already not really been a thing to begin with because I only have my bio dad. My bio mom decided to go do drugs instead of try to be involved and raise her kids so Ive had to raise my brothers. Anyways shes not in the picture because her rights were terminated.  Right now my stepmom is in the process of adopting us. The whole time shes been wanting to adopt us. Like been supportive and everything. But lately it feels like she doesn't and I would rather her just admit it then like not.  Im the oldest of 4 kids (atleast rn in the household). So naturally responsibilities are watching kids and helping out with simple things like cleaning and stuff.  Its over the top now. I come home I clean the entire house, I cook dinner every night, I go pick up my siblings and watch them and am expected to be in charge of them even when the other adults are home bc apparently they don't want to deal with them. idk.  I just want to move out bc its not the fact that I'm doing all this stuff its the fact that nothing I do is good enough. They always complain about something I did and its starting to effect me, hence why the "babysitting" issue is amplified. Im not trying to sound ungrateful or rude or lazy or idk what you want to call it. Im just idk. 
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