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brightPeach4016
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Fear of abandonment and friends
Anxiety Support / by brightPeach4016
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 February 27th, 2022
...See more Hi, I'm a bit new to this. I have anxieties about fear of abandonment. I've always struggled with keeping relationships because I feel pushed away or I am the one pushing away. It had got worse after an old group of friends in college ghosted me. This was over the span of months of ignoring messages, physically avoiding me. It left me feeling so worthless, and lonely I never wanted to get close to anyone. And I know it doesn't seem like a big deal, but I haven't been able to keep friends since. It had happened before I got to college too. I had hopes in college it would be different, but it crushed me more than anything. I made a few friends over my last few years of college, and I am starting to feel like they're pushing away. We were roommates and we got so close. I spent most of my time with them as I finished college. I felt so confortable with them and we shared a lot together. I moved away after college. I know things will change, since I won't see them often. It went from a call every other day to a call once a week, and now it's been more than two. I feel like I'm the only one reaching out with no response. I can't help to feel they'll leave me too.
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