Skip to main content Skip to bottom nav
Talk to a licensed therapist Wherever you are, whenever you need support. Get matched
brightPond6255
1 115 M Embraced 1
PathStep 1 Compassion hearts15 Forum posts3 Forum upvotes5 Current upvotes5 Age GroupAdult Last activeFebruary, 2023 Member sinceMay 6, 2021
Bio
Recent forum posts
brightPond6255 profile picture
Please help. Confused and depressed.
35 & Over Community / by brightPond6255
Last post
 January 28th, 2023
...See more I know a guy for over five years (we used to have a thing go out spent every nye together) i did everything for him... help him spoilt him and always be there for him.... let him borrow money (i never ask for it back) spent over 9k on him (happy to spend on him)..... im the kind of person that will always be there for anyone no matter what happens even if they dont want anything to do with me..... We last saw each other 2 weeks ago when his son and my kids stayed at his house. Last night he txt me n told me to leave his clothes (1 pants 2 t-shirt n 2 boxers) i have off his outside n he pick it up....i told him i understand even tho things dont work out im so happy n glad he still wanna be my mate n keep in touch now n then.... he said thanks for understanding hes good stay good cant promise that. Also said he need to take control of everything around him.... I txt back All good it doesnt matter if he cant promise that we be mate or see each other again..... im gonna still keep all my promise i make to him..... to just focus on himself n his life im still here n will wait i told him i believe we'll see each other n be mate again one day.... good night n take care He told me to respect his words hes not gonna be around and glad i understand. He said he doesnt want to go back and forth n make decision long since.... I txt him and told him even he doesnt want anything to do with me i always gonna be here for him.... i ask him to delete all the video of me especially all the video of us in bed (ya know) n thanks him n ask him if i could have the necklace that he always wear (i gave it to him) to remember him by n said my goodbye.... he said he deleted the video n took the necklace off..... I dont understand what i did to him. I dont understand why he just cut me off like that why he wants nothing to do with me or dont want to be my mates im so confused.... what should I do? Any help much appreciate it. Thanks
brightPond6255 profile picture
Confused
Relationship Stress / by brightPond6255
Last post
 July 4th, 2021
...See more I need help and confused what to do. I have been friend with a guy for the past 3.5 years. I cook clean iron wash for him now and then. Sometimes I stay at his house (yeah we hook up) but about 4 days we got into a huge agreement. He throw me out his house tell me to get out of here.... catch the train back.... delete me of snapchat but not block.... blocked me on normal text, call n whatsapp.... Told me he never said he wanted to date me. Told me there was something wrong with me. Told me he never want to see me or talk to me again. He Said some mean nasty things to me. All I can say to him is sorry and I didn't what I did wrong. Then he texted me on my old whatsapp number about 2 days ago asking me how I am doing and if I want to talk about it later. I'm so confused about what to do and what he want from me. Why would he be texting when he said all that stuff. I want to move on and get away from drama but I don't know what to do or where to start.
Search more from @brightPond6255
Talk to an expert therapist
I'm getting really great feedback about my concerns and validation of my...
Reviewed Aug 21, 2026
Talk to Denise Now
Badges & Awards
7 total badges
Hand Shake First Post Reaching out Helping out First Compassion Teammate Forum Friend
Report an issue
Feel better with online therapy Professional, confidential and affordable. Start today
Talk to a licensed therapist Wherever you are, whenever you need support. Get matched