Confused
I need help and confused what to do. I have been friend with a guy for the past 3.5 years. I cook clean iron wash for him now and then. Sometimes I stay at his house (yeah we hook up) but about 4 days we got into a huge agreement. He throw me out his house tell me to get out of here.... catch the train back.... delete me of snapchat but not block.... blocked me on normal text, call n whatsapp.... Told me he never said he wanted to date me. Told me there was something wrong with me. Told me he never want to see me or talk to me again. He Said some mean nasty things to me. All I can say to him is sorry and I didn't what I did wrong. Then he texted me on my old whatsapp number about 2 days ago asking me how I am doing and if I want to talk about it later. I'm so confused about what to do and what he want from me. Why would he be texting when he said all that stuff. I want to move on and get away from drama but I don't know what to do or where to start.
Hi, So I can say I have been in almost a similar situation. What I learnt from it is that after all the mean things that were said to me and emotional abuse and later allowing him to come back into my life like he has done nothing, it’s like it was showing him that he can talk how he want and act out and I’ll always be there and in the long run it cost me. If you want to move on explain to him that there are things you will not accept / tolerate. Make your peace and start moving on/ healing. Sometimes yourself and putting yourself first early, is usually better than all the damage that their actions might do to you mentally and emotionally. I hope this helps
I don't know the nature of your argument or what he experienced, but that sounds very toxic. I think it may be best to stay away. I was in a very toxic relationship and kept making excuses for that person because they treated me well at first. I know this isn't a romantic relationship for you, but regardless, you need to be treated with more respect than that.