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callmefahim59
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PathStep 1 Compassion hearts85 Forum posts32 Forum upvotes52 Current upvotes52 Age GroupAdult Last activeSeptember, 2026 Member sinceApril 22, 2026
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Hey there! I'm 21 years old and just trying to find my way through life. 🌱

I deal with anxiety and depression, and I know how lonely that can feel sometimes. That's why I'm here — to find genuine connections and maybe help each other heal a little.

I'm a good listener, honest, and I value real conversations over small talk.

Looking for a serious, caring friend — age no bar. 💙

If you ever need someone to talk to, or just want a friend who truly gets it — I'm here. 🤝

"You don't have to go through it alone." 🌸

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Facing several near death experiences
Depression Support / by callmefahim59
Last post
 August 8th
...See more In the past few days, I have gone through a few near-death experiences that shook me deeply and made me rethink life in a very serious way. I honestly don’t know what is going to happen next, but I’m trying to stay strong and move forward step by step. I would really appreciate your prayers and good wishes during this time. May we all be protected from harm and guided safely through whatever comes next.
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Confused about feelings for a close friend
Depression Support / by callmefahim59
Last post
 May 30th
...See more I've been dealing with some emotional confusion lately and honestly just need someone to talk to. I'm 20 years old and developed strong feelings for one of my closest friends, who is also 20. The problem is that I never told her how I felt. By the time I finally opened up, she was already in a relationship with someone older — he's around 30. What made things even more confusing is that she told me if I had confessed earlier, she probably would have chosen me. She also says her current relationship isn't going very well. According to her, her boyfriend can be emotionally distant, sometimes disrespectful, and she feels the relationship may be toxic. She admitted she still has some positive feelings for me too, which made everything harder emotionally. We talk a lot — honestly, probably more than she talks with her current boyfriend — and because of that I've become deeply attached emotionally. Now I feel stuck between hope, guilt, confusion, jealousy, and fear of losing both her and the friendship. Part of me wants to wait and see what happens, while another part thinks I should move on and protect my mental peace. I genuinely don't want to manipulate her or pressure her into choosing me. I just want clarity and a healthy way to deal with all these emotions. The age gap also confuses me sometimes. She's 20, he's around 30, and despite that level of maturity difference, she still doesn't feel emotionally cared for in the relationship. I don't really know what the right thing to do is anymore. I just need honest guidance from someone emotionally mature or experienced.
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Looking for a Genuine Friend 💙
Friendship Support / by callmefahim59
Last post
 July 13th
...See more Hi everyone! I'm 20 years old and looking for a serious, caring friend to talk to regularly. I struggle with anxiety and depression, and I believe having a supportive friend to talk to can make a big difference. Age doesn't matter to me — what matters is that you're genuine, patient, and kind. If you're going through something similar or just want to be there for someone, feel free to reach out. I'd love to have a real conversation and build a meaningful friendship. 🤝 Let's support each other! 💚
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Facing a tough phase in life, hoping to connect with kind, open-minded people
Friendship Support / by callmefahim59
Last post
 May 2nd
...See more Hi, I’m a 20-year-old student from Bangladesh looking for a thoughtful and open-minded penpal, preferably from Europe. I consider myself liberal and open to different perspectives. I enjoy meaningful conversations about culture, life, and personal growth. Right now, I’m going through a very difficult time. I recently got my U.S. visa rejected despite having a full tuition scholarship, which has left me feeling lost and disappointed. I may move to Finland within the next few months for my studies, but everything feels uncertain. My family, especially my mother, is making huge sacrifices for my future, and that pressure is something I carry every day. My long-term goal is to return to Bangladesh after graduation and build a strong career, hopefully in public service. I’ll be honest—sometimes I’ve had uncomfortable experiences with people from different backgrounds, and it made me more careful about who I connect with. That’s why I’m here looking for someone genuinely kind, respectful, and open-minded. If you value real conversation, empathy, and cultural exchange, feel free to reach out.
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