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casiacara95
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Second chance
Relationship Stress / by casiacara95
Last post
 February 6th
...See more I'm currently three weeks in grieving and being depressed after finding out my partner been cheating on me the past two months, I always known the type of person he was and I always told my self to prepare, and over time two kids together after five years he cheats and with a family friend of his and it got me hard because who the person was but anyways now that it's been three weeks and I'm sleeping in a seperate room and keeping my distance my husband gave me my space and it sucked I don't think he clearly understands how bad this hurts and how I feel he distroyed our relationship especially my trust , and like this is my second marriage my first marriage was traumatic and I left after 8 years , so now I feel like I'm repeating that cycle and I'm feeling defeated!!! Like I lost at life or relationship idk , but I'm at the point where I want to give this a chance but I already know I need to use this time to prepare myself to leave because I don't have high hopes now that I feel this marriage it's just a repetition of my past . Idk if marriage counseling will help us or if it will work.
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I can't take it !
Relationship Stress / by casiacara95
Last post
 February 1st
...See more I'm feeling so broken after finding out that my husband was having a 11 yr affair in our 5 year relationship, I always knew about his past but he hid this particular person that was like his second family just for me to find out it was a sick sexual relationship since he was in highschool and it's just so disturbing but more towards my self a steam like I can't get it through my head, I'm broke. Because he hid this for so long and I knew him way before highschool so I feel like guilty because I knew something was wrong , but In the end it just keeps getting worse and it hurts so bad that was his mom's best friend and I'm struggling to believe that after she cast him away because he was a bad influence towards his son could have led to his passing, i believe he found out before I did and then the visits he would go to there house and get payed to clean and pet sit and he stayed there for a while and it makes my stomach sick to think while we were together this whole time he was lying to my face, and this just hits harder because it's my second marriage and I just feel like I maid this mistake and I feel so much regret but also huge rejection after finding out his affair.
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I'm just shocked
Relationship Stress / by casiacara95
Last post
 January 30th
...See more I’m currently processing a major betrayal. My husband of five years was unfaithful with someone close to us, and the shock has left me struggling to eat and grieve properly. While I’ve already taken steps to separate our lives—moving to a different room and preparing to return to work for financial independence—I’m struggling with the 'why' of it all. I felt confident in our relationship, so this feels like a total blindside. I’m focused on the divorce and moving out, but I’m still dealing with a deep sense of rejection and fear of future disappointment especially with our kids.
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