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crimsonFarm7320
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Feeling alone and stuck
Depression Support / by crimsonFarm7320
Last post
 July 7th
...See more I don’t post much but I’m not sure how else to express this. I just don’t have a good community right now. I have a few friends but it really bothers me how little people are willing to put into their relationships around me. Idk im just feeling really alone today. Been feeling like this for a long time now and exhausted by all the effort it takes to learn more about my depression and loneliness and trauma and then to feel like I have to carry all of it on my own and there’s no reasonable way to let anyone else in on it. I’ve noticed a kind of humming panic that’s been persistent the last few weeks. The kind you feel maybe when you’re about to do something really scary and there’s no going back (a really high jump into a water, or going to perform on stage) but it feels negative and like I only have myself to blame. Does anyone else feel this way?
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Men are objectified and abused too
Men's Issues / by crimsonFarm7320
Last post
 November 25th, 2025
...See more As someone who’s been objectified as a child, teenager, and adult for being small and emotionally abused as a result of the type of misogyny that hurts men and is practiced by everyone, I’m really frustrated and have been struggling recently by the lack of awareness and empathy for this type of cruelty. I feel like I’m dealing with this on some level everyday whether it’s just a memory of an abuser that consumes my thoughts or the person I’d try to confide in as a child only to be ignored. I don’t think anyone cares. I don’t think there’s a person in my real life I could realistically explain this to without them being disgusted with me. I’ve tried finding listeners and no one cares. I feel totally alone in this. Can we figure out a way for men to take control back over masculinity without relying on its objectifying symbols?
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Stop neglecting men
Men's Issues / by crimsonFarm7320
Last post
 March 4th, 2025
...See more I helped create the now “men’s issues” group here a couple months ago on a different account. I deleted that account after enough frustration with people and listeners on here. I created one again because I need to voice this deeply troubling issue with the over arching 7 cups community and our contemporary culture more generally. STOP NEGLECTING MEN. We find it very easy to point out “insecure men”(which btw what a crazy way to generalize a group you’ve vilified in your head), but men have such a broad range of experience, trauma, and struggles that generalizing what men are and aren’t allowed to feel is deplorable and it’s something I see from EVERYONE. People who consider themselves “good people” people who are actively pursuing mental healthcare opportunities… everyone is refusing to empathize with men and boys who are being abused, neglected, isolated, bullied, etc. and I’m honestly pretty angry about it. I’ve been through many therapists in my efforts to deal with this who are also guilty. Men themselves are guilty of this issue. We have no system by which we can look at a man struggling and empathize with what he’s going through. I’m deeply disappointed in everyone on this site who has contributed to this. I’d put this on the men’s issues thread but then you wouldn’t read it and you’d go about your life assuming there’s nothing to worry about. I’m begging at this point. SOMETHING HAS TO CHANGE.
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