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decisiveDime2523
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When Missed opportunity comes back to Haunt you
Relationship Stress / by decisiveDime2523
Last post
 May 8th
...See more I met this guy and everything about was pulling me towards him. suddenly I couldn't talk but for some reason we just never had that moment. I started seeing a frustration from him and I told myself that I would master up the courage to maybe initiate something. I guess he could use to all the girls going up to him but I always prefer the traditional way of the guy pursuing the girl but it just never happened. unbeknownst to me he admit someone else and he would later bring her to the friend group. on the day he brought her there was a narrow arrogance like look at me I have found someone. I had never seen that side to him, it just broke my heart. it wasn't so much that it brought somebody else He's the way he's stood there looking at me almost like looking to see any semblance of sadness this whole situation cause me. I really thought he was the one but I guess not. so I just fell too not react if he did eat again and before long I just stopped looking at him. I noticed that even though he had brought her to the friend group he wouldn't necessarily stand next to her but kept a distance. in some cases he would try to come closer to where I was but I just ignored it, pretended I didn't even see him looking at me. now that arrogance I saw at first has vanished and instead of being in this blissfully happy beginnings of a relationship he just seems sad. now I just catch him looking at me no matter where I stand, he look for me in any setting just to look at me from a distance. anytime we are in the same room the same vicinity and I'm near them he practically does everything he can to create some distance, no PDA of any kind. For someone who's only being married for 2 months, he looks downcast. Even when his wife tries to initiate some PDA he ignores it like put his hands in his pocket shift away from her in his seat. *** axanoid with me he now acts annoyed with me when I say hi. Even when I congratulated him on his wedding he perfectly asked what I was congratulating him for and when I said he's marriage he I enthusiastically said oh thank you in an annoyed way. does he blame me for his current situation?
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My crush who kept staring at me choose another woman over me yet he keeps looking at me
Relationship Stress / by decisiveDime2523
Last post
 May 8th
...See more I met this guy, and everything about him pulled me toward him. The way he looked at me made some people convinced we were dating, but I’m shy. Though some girls would shoot their shot, I didn’t. I guess he got used to girls approaching him, but I always preferred the traditional way of the guy pursuing the girl, and it never happened. Anytime he got close, I suddenly couldn’t talk, so we never had that moment. I started seeing frustration from him and told myself I would muster the courage to initiate something. Unbeknownst to me, he had started seeing someone else and later brought her to the friend group. On that day, there was an air of pride or arrogance about him, like “Look at me, I’ve found someone.” I had never seen that side of him, and it broke my heart. It wasn’t so much that he brought somebody else; it was the way he stood there looking at me, almost checking for any sign of sadness, jealousy, or hurt. I really thought he was the one. So I stopped reacting. If he looked at me, I ignored it and stopped looking at him altogether. Even though he brought her to the friend group, he wouldn’t stand next to her and kept his distance. In some cases, he would try to come closer to where I was, but I pretended not to see him. Sometimes, before they left, he would randomly stop to look at me one last time. After a few weeks of this, we were all together with our friends. I was talking to one of the single guys, and when he saw me, he stopped dead in his tracks. He was physically shaken. To everyone’s surprise, the next time we saw him, they were married. Now, only two months in, he looks downcast. The arrogance he first showed has vanished. Instead of a happily married man, he seems sad and detached. Now I catch him looking for me in any setting, staring from a distance, no matter where I stand. Anytime we’re in the same room, he does everything he can to create space between him and his wife, no PDA at all. Even when she tries to initiate affection, he ignores it by putting his hands in his pockets and shifting away. He seems annoyed with me even when I say hi. When I congratulated him on his marriage, he acted surprised and responded unenthusiastically, “Oh, thanks,” in an annoyed tone. It’s like my presence irritates him. * Does he blame me for his current situation? * Why does he keep staring at me when he has found his forever person, even when I don’t acknowledge him or his stares?
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