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decisiveMapleCAN
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Ghosting
Relationship Stress / by decisiveMapleCAN
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October 16th, 2025
...See more Struggling with this I’m in my mid 40s going through separation.. I met this beautiful, 31 year old doctor, she is hot, and super smart.. and she is going through divorce herself. Our first few meetings were intense, intimate and then I had to travel… I’m oceans away as I live in NA and she lives in the Middle East. We have been talking non stop for 6 weeks and we started developing feelings.. she told me she is falling for me, she is a resident doctor, and have tests coming up, and told me she is getting her *** together Two weeks ago, communication started wining down… and 11 days ago, she sent me a message saying she is going through lots of crap but she is getting her *** together, and that she misses me. After that I sent her couple of supporting messages, and nothing at all.. zip .. silence… she never responded … I’m torn.. I’m supposed to travel to her in 1 month, after her exams and I booked a place for us.. but I have a feeling that she maybe ghosting because of the intensity of her situation and the fact that she is falling for me.. what shall I do? Her last contact was 8 days ago, mine was 4 days.. will she come back??
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Ghosting
Depression Support / by decisiveMapleCAN
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October 14th, 2025
...See more Struggling with this I’m in my mid 40s going through separation.. I met this beautiful, 31 year old doctor, she is hot, and super smart.. and she is going through divorce herself. Our first few meetings were intense, intimate and then I had to travel… I’m oceans away as I live in NA and she lives in the Middle East. We have been talking non stop for 6 weeks and we started developing feelings.. she told me she is falling for me, she is a resident doctor, and have tests coming up, and told me she is getting her *** together Two weeks ago, communication started wining down… and 8 days ago, she sent me a message saying she is going through lots of crap but she is getting her *** together, and that she misses me. After that I sent her couple of supporting messages, and nothing at all.. zip .. silence… she never responded … I’m torn.. I’m supposed to travel to her in 1 month, after her exams and I booked a place for us.. but I have a feeling that she maybe ghosting because of the intensity of her situation and the fact that she is falling for me.. what shall I do? Her last contact was 8 days ago, mine was 4 days.. will she come back??
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