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diplomaticJar60
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Just had first break up
Relationship Stress / by diplomaticJar60
Last post
 December 4th, 2025
...See more Hi I am 20 years and I had my first break up I mean I broke up with him He didn't cheat but he used to ignore me and sometimes I used to wait for hours for text back and when he did he just say that he was playing doing something like that and I thought he was busy okay but one day I text him and he seen it but didn't text back and i was waiting for hours and when he text back he just said he was studying but when I told him that he would have told me that he was studying then I wouldn't had be wait for him just 3 to 4 hours and he was texting back and saying sorry but in the end he just said I just need reason to be angry at him I mean was I wrong for wanting just one text from him but I leave it and stay with him and then on the day of break up we were texting and he said he wants to meet me and I told him I can't meet him tomorrow because I went out with my friends and brought gifts for my cousin birthday and I was like I can't meet you because I am really tired and I told him that and I am not very out going person too and he knows that and pluse my parents are strict too so I said no in straight way not maybe or I will see just no ok But he just said if I don't come tomorrow I will jump off the bridge and I was like are you stupid and I stay really patience and I said maybe more than four times but he was pushing me and forcing me to come or he will kill himself and in the end I just asked for break up and he was not giving up and he even told me that he will kill me and kill himself if I leave him but I just said nicely no I can't be with you because your behavior is hurting and it went for 1 or 2 hours and finally he give up and we broke up that's it Then my friend stay near him so I asked her that how is he doing maybe he was toxic but I till care okay so I asked and she said he had red eyes I don't know but I feel bad I mean I still love him but I can't be with him anymore he just give the saddest I don't want so yea In the end I just want to ask if I am wrong because I am feeling that I should have stay with him but i know he won't change and hurt me so i leave I don't know how to move on so yea I really need someone to tell me how to move on from someone whom you love even they hurt you
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Confusion
Relationship Stress / by diplomaticJar60
Last post
 October 4th, 2025
...See more I am 19 years old and I am in my first relationship he was nice at first he make me laugh and safe but now I just feel weird with him , I mean he started to put less effort in the relationship like before he used to reply even he was really busy but now he doesn't even want to talk to me and ignore me during conversation and leave on read and I wait for him but except sorry or talking to me he just say good night and give him a good night kiss and it's not one time. And it's only been like 4 months of this relationship and he treat me like this. And when I question him he just say that I will marry to if u asked questions like that I try to have a nice conversation but he just doesn't understand he act immature and get angry tell me how I doubt his love but I don't feel the love he said he had for me. So many I thought of leaving him but when I just asked like question not in serious conversation he say that if I leave him , he will hurt himself and stuffs like that. And I do love him but I don't know if he really care like yesterday I had fight with him and he just said sorry without any thing he doesn't even know what he did I want to tell him but I don't think he will remember like always he doesn't remember. I cry really hard yesterday because of all the things and write in diary and from reading it I realized how much he is hurting me. I am really trying to understanding but this stress is killing me . I am losing weight my dark circles are wrost and I can't even focus on my studies , when studies is so important to me. I can't do and I want to leave him but I do love him and I am sacred he will hurt himself or will tell my family about our relationship which will be wrost.
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My habits
Eating Disorder Support / by diplomaticJar60
Last post
 October 4th, 2025
...See more I don't know if I have eating disorder but my feelings and my mood affect on my eating habits sometimes I just force myself to eat and sometimes I just don't want to eat. And because of this things I continually lose and gain weight just within a month I sometimes gaine 2 or 4 kg and in then I just lose the weight I don't know what is happening. And pluse when I was a 12 or 13 years old I was over weight and I was always the laughing stock and because of that i went to one meal diet. I would had only my lunch and skip my breakfast and dinner at that time I was 12 so I don't know any better but nowadays I am not trying to do that but my habits are coming back somehow like when I take lunch or dinner a thought came that I should not eat this much or I will gain weight and because of that I have lose a lot of weight. I don't know what to do but I want to change it but I can't help it I just don't want to be a 12 years old anymore I want to grow up from that but I don't know how
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