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Just had first break up

User Profile: diplomaticJar60
diplomaticJar60 December 3rd, 2025

Hi I am 20 years and I had my first break up I mean I broke up with him

He didn't cheat but he used to ignore me and sometimes I used to wait for hours for text back and when he did he just say that he was playing doing something like that and I thought he was busy okay but one day I text him and he seen it but didn't text back and i was waiting for hours and when he text back he just said he was studying but when I told him that he would have told me that he was studying then I wouldn't had be wait for him just 3 to 4 hours and he was texting back and saying sorry but in the end he just said I just need reason to be angry at him I mean was I wrong for wanting just one text from him but I leave it and stay with him and then on the day of break up we were texting and he said he wants to meet me and I told him I can't meet him tomorrow because I went out with my friends and brought gifts for my cousin birthday and I was like I can't meet you because I am really tired and I told him that and I am not very out going person too and he knows that and pluse my parents are strict too so I said no in straight way not maybe or I will see just no ok

But he just said if I don't come tomorrow I will jump off the bridge and I was like are you stupid and I stay really patience and I said maybe more than four times but he was pushing me and forcing me to come or he will kill himself and in the end I just asked for break up and he was not giving up and he even told me that he will kill me and kill himself if I leave him but I just said nicely no I can't be with you because your behavior is hurting and it went for 1 or 2 hours and finally he give up and we broke up that's it

Then my friend stay near him so I asked her that how is he doing maybe he was toxic but I till care okay so I asked and she said he had red eyes I don't know but I feel bad I mean I still love him but I can't be with him anymore he just give the saddest I don't want so yea

In the end I just want to ask if I am wrong because I am feeling that I should have stay with him but i know he won't change and hurt me so i leave

I don't know how to move on so yea I really need someone to tell me how to move on from someone whom you love even they hurt you

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User Profile: Amanda84
Amanda84 December 3rd, 2025

@diplomaticJar60

You are not responsible for his mental health and he cannot threaten to do things like that.

You deserve the same time, energy and love back that you put into a relationship.

He's not mature enough yet to be in one 💖

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User Profile: diplomaticJar60
diplomaticJar60 OP December 3rd, 2025

I know but it's just been few days so i kinda feel bad but I am getting over it

And we used be friends before relationship so it's just weird

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User Profile: Amanda84
Amanda84 December 4th, 2025

@diplomaticJar60

It takes time to heal, be gentle with yourself 💖

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User Profile: JaMauraC18
JaMauraC18 December 3rd, 2025

@diplomaticJar60

hello

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User Profile: diplomaticJar60
diplomaticJar60 OP December 3rd, 2025

Hello

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