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Just breathe, you'll be okay <3
Number of ratings54 Number of reviews42 Listens toTeens & Over 18 LanguagesEnglish, British Sign Language Listener sinceOct 13, 2019 Last activein last week GenderFemale PathStep 215 People helped272 Chats834 Group support chats21 Listener group chats446 Forum posts181 Forum upvotes334
Bio

Hello! I am having surgery on 4/9/2024, and will be taking the time I need to recover. I will not be able to respond to messages immediately during this time.


Thank you for your understanding!♥️


💖Hi there💖

I am so glad you’re here, and that you feel able to share things that may be difficult for you to open up about. I’m here to listen and be a shoulder to lean on when you need it the most. Sometimes just being there for someone is enough. This is a no-judgement zone.

I have had a lot of direct-lived experiences with mental and physical health issues, and completely understand what it is like to be misunderstood or unheard and having no one to turn to. Feeling alone and isolated in your own body is extremely hard. However, I’ve discovered over time that this actually tends to be when you need the support the most. Please let me be that person for you during these difficult moments.❤️

I want you to be able to feel comfortable talking with me, but if you feel like I am not understanding you correctly and you would prefer to talk to someone else, I completely understand and would not take this personally. Please just let me know as I will be able to recommend someone for you and your specific needs.


I have some personal triggers relating to medical topics, but I will be sure to let you know during the chat if this is the case at any point. I appreciate your understanding with this.


I am studying at university right now and it can get pretty hectic at times. Whilst I am fast to respond when I am online, this will not be the case for the rest of the day. Please be patient with me, I will respond as soon as I am able to😊

My roles here:

  • Verified Listener
  • Approved Adult-Teen Listener
  • Listener Verifier Team
  • Peer Supporter
  • Chat Support (Adult/Teen)
  • Listener Chatroom Mentor (Adults/Teens)
  • Listener Discussions Team
  • Doorkeeper (ask me to open/close a room!)
  • Quality Mentor
  • Listener Coaching Team
  • Safety Patrol Team
  • Quality Mentoring - Project Agent
  • Anonymous Evaluations Team
  • Needs Reply Team Co-Leader

I have successfully completed:

  • Internship Programme - with Honours
  • Leadership Development Programme - with Honours
  • Time Management Course
  • Community Building Course


My listener twin buddy is: @Kristynsmama

My Listener Twin Brain is: @Fuechsin - it feels like we share the same brain cells! 😊🩷


Credit to: AnnaSilverberg for my profile pic design😁




Recent forum posts
Weekly check in (7th April - 15th April)
Disability Support / by dreamIcicle8467
Last post
 April 16th
...See more Hello Everyone! Today, April 7th, is World Health Day, an awareness day, created by the World Health Organisation (WHO) in 1950 to spread more awareness about disabilities and long term conditions.  This year’s theme is “My Health, My Right”, was set to highlight the importance that everyone deserves access to: * high-quality healthcare * education * information * autonomy to make decisions * freedom from discrimination through reasonable adjustments and suitable working environments * basic essentials such as food, water, and shelter Weekly Check in Questions: * What do you find most challenging about living with a disability or chronic illness in day to day life?  * What did you manage to accomplish last week? * What are your priorities for this week? * How can we support you this week?
Weekly Check In (March 26-April 2nd)
Disability Support / by dreamIcicle8467
Last post
 April 2nd
...See more Hello Everyone! Today, the 26th March, marks Epilepsy Awareness Day, or “Purple Day”. Cassidy Megan, a Canadian, created this awareness day, in 2018, to advocate against misconceptions surrounding epilepsy and to encourage understanding and support for those living with the life-long neurological condition.  💜 Purple was chosen as the colour for epilepsy awareness to represent courage and solidarity💜 Check in Questions: * Do you have, or know anyone with Epilepsy? * What are your top 3 priorities for this week? * What can we help you through this week?
Come and Learn About Cerebral Palsy 💚
Disability Support / by dreamIcicle8467
Last post
 April 4th
...See more March is Cerebral Palsy Awareness month, and as a fellow CP warrior myself, I’m honoured to be creating this post! What is CP? Cerebral Palsy is a term used to describe a group of motor conditions that causes physical disability in development - specifically movement, posture and balance. Cerebral - refers to the cerebrum, the area of the brain affected - this controls movement and coordination.  Palsy - refers to the physical condition the damage causes - paralysis or weakness of muscles, affecting a person’s control of their movement. What Causes CP? Cerebral Palsy is caused by damage to the brain, during pregnancy, birth or shortly after birth (known as a traumatic brain injury). This damage occurs when a part of the brain (cerebrum) is not able to receive enough oxygen, due to a blockage or bleed, causing the neurons to die. This results in irreversible damage and physical disability. Types of CP: 💚 Hemiplegic CP: Affects one side of the body, typically causing muscle weakness or stiffness in the arm and leg on that side. 💚 Monoplegic CP: Affects one limb, usually an arm or leg. 💚 Diplegic CP: Primarily affects the legs, often resulting in muscle stiffness and difficulty with walking. 💚 Quadriplegic CP: Affects all four limbs, typically causing severe muscle stiffness and significant challenges with mobility and coordination. 💚 Spastic CP: This refers to cerebral palsy characterized by muscle stiffness and tightness (spasticity). It affects movement and posture, making movements awkward and sometimes jerky. 💚 Dyskinetic CP: involuntary, uncontrolled movements that can affect the whole body or specific parts, such as the arms or legs. 💚 Ataxic CP: Affects balance and coordination. Individuals with ataxic CP may have shaky movements, particularly when attempting fine motor tasks or walking. 💚 Mixed CP: involves a combination of features from different types of cerebral palsy. This can include a mix of spastic, dyskinetic, and/or ataxic symptoms, making the condition more complex. 💚 Hypotonic CP: low muscle tone, leading to floppy or loose muscles. It can affect coordination and may result in difficulties with posture and movement control. Symptoms People With CP May Suffer From: 💚 Muscle stiffness or spasticity 💚 Impaired coordination and balance 💚 Difficulty with fine motor skills 💚 Speech and communication challenges 💚 Seizures 💚 Joint contractures or deformities 💚 Intellectual disabilities or learning difficulties 💚 Sensory impairments such as vision or hearing problems 💚Gastrointestinal issues 💚Respiratory problems 💚 Chronic pain Do you have any questions about Cerebral Palsy? Ask them below! I’m sure other fellow CP warriors will be happy to answer any questions! 😊 Here is an interview with more information about CP  [https://www.7cups.com/forum/disabilities/DisabilityDiary_2664/InterviewDiariesLivingwithCerebralPalsy_326155/] 💚Resources💚 https://www.nhs.uk/conditions/cerebral-palsy/ [https://www.nhs.uk/conditions/cerebral-palsy/] https://www.ninds.nih.gov/health-information/disorders/cerebral-palsy [https://www.ninds.nih.gov/health-information/disorders/cerebral-palsy] https://upmovement.org.uk [https://upmovement.org.uk/] https://cparf.org/what-is-cerebral-palsy/ [https://cparf.org/what-is-cerebral-palsy/] https://www.bccerebralpalsy.com [https://www.bccerebralpalsy.com/] https://www.scope.org.uk/advice-and-support/cerebral-palsy-introduction/ [https://www.scope.org.uk/advice-and-support/cerebral-palsy-introduction/] https://contact.org.uk/help-for-families/information-advice-services/hemihelp/ [https://contact.org.uk/help-for-families/information-advice-services/hemihelp/] For anyone interested in being interviewed about their condition or disability there is a form https://forms.gle/MZ1df1FWtJYHQvuy9 [https://forms.gle/MZ1df1FWtJYHQvuy9]  to express your interest as well as volunteering to interview someone else. Catch up with other Interviews Here [https://www.7cups.com/forum/disabilities/ArticlesResourcesConditionSpecificInformation_458/InterviewSeriesMasterList_292976/] in our Master List! Want to join the Disability Support Community Team? 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Weekly check in! (11-17th March)
Disability Support / by dreamIcicle8467
Last post
 March 15th
...See more Hello Everyone, The last week has definitely been difficult for a lot of us, it’s come with challenges and anxieties and hard moments. How are we all feeling about entering a new week? Scared, happy, upset, frustrated? However you are feeling about entering the new week, we hear you, we see you, we understand, we are with you. Let us know how you’re feeling about this week by answering some Questions: - How are you feeling about going into a new week? - Do you have any goals or big events coming up this week? - What is one thing you are going to do to prioritise yourself, and give yourself some grace this week? - How is the weather going to be this week for you? How does that affect your symptoms?
What is your pain level today on a scale of 1-10?
Disability Support / by dreamIcicle8467
Last post
 March 7th
...See more Hi all, How are we? I know I am struggling with my pain at the moment, due to having to adjust to the British weathers! I hope you are all managing okay this week. How is your pain today? Can you rate it on a scale? (it can be your own! 😊) What are you doing to give yourself some grace? (remember it is okay to put yourself first!) What words do you need to hear right now, to support you?💗
25th Feb - 2nd March Check in!!
Disability Support / by dreamIcicle8467
Last post
 February 26th
...See more Hi everyone! The last few days of February are approaching, and I want to find out more about how you’re managing during this time. Sometimes, it can be hard to transition into a new month, because of health, appointments, treatment, or other things on our schedule. It can become overwhelming, and anxiety inducing. This can have a negative (or positive!) impact on our condition.  My questions to you are: - Are you nervous about the thought of February ending and March approaching?  - What usually helps you to manage the transition into a new month, especially if it’s a tough one? - How are you planning to include some self care into your week? - How can we support you during this time?
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