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dynamicHuman2975
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Marriage help
20 & Over / by dynamicHuman2975
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 September 6th
...See more Hey guys Im 29 I got married really young Ive been with my partner for 7 years. We grew up together so essentially my identity, family ties and pretty much my whole life is tied into hers. I don't know who I am without her. Ive noticed from the start that my partner was a little manipulative and emotionally volatile. Ive always brushed it off and tried to keep the peace. Ive realized now that Ive sacrificed myself and my feelings for so long that I feel so emotionally drained now. I feel finally I've hit rock bottom and I don't have anything left to give. Im tired of regulating her emotions, so she is calm and happy because when she is not she lashes out. Im tired of having transactional intimacy that is only one sided. Im tired of walking on eggshells with her if I speak my truth it leads to conflict or guilt. This has lead to over the years of me just being silent and taking it. Has anyone experienced this? What did you do Im stuck!
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New to this! Looking for anyone who has gone through this all thoughts are welcome
LGBTQ+ / MOGII Support / by dynamicHuman2975
Last post
 September 6th
...See more Hi guys Im 29 and Ive been married to my best friend for 7 years. Im really going through it today and just need some advice. Ive never told anyone this before. Naturally with being with my partner for so long we share all the same friends and I have really no one to go to. Im exhausted of feeling like I do everything in this relationship. I’ve spent so long trying to keep the peace, manage emotional volatility, and walking on eggshells that my mind and body are just totally crashing. Ive lost myself and after years of suppressing my feelings I feel like my thoughts are attacking me. Ive struggled to communicate with her for so long in fear of her being mad at me or gaslighting me. I’m terrified because I know deep down that I can’t keep living like this, but the thought of leaving or changing everything feels overwhelming. I carry so much guilt, but I honestly have nothing left in me to give. Just needed somewhere to get my thoughts out.
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