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fairmindedCurrent648
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i dont kn0w what to think anymore, i feel its making me go crazy
Relationship Stress / by fairmindedCurrent648
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 January 2nd, 2018
...See more Hi my name is lucas and im having a bit of a hard time, i dont know where to begin because nowhere does it feel lke the right place to but im in need of some kind of advice, i was in a long term relationship that lasted for about 2 years, at the time that we broke up i was the one who ended things, i was very upset at him for the way he would treat me sometimes and because i felt we would talk about what we wanted to fix but things would only change for a week, but dont get me wrong, not all of it was bad, for that matter the good times haunt me everyday. we were separated for 5 months in which i was so angry at him that i felt i was over him and started a new relationship soon after, after a month in both of those relationship and things not working out i came to realized i wasnt angry at him anymore and that i wasnt over my ex well call him alf for the sake of it so after some time and a lot of thought i spoke with him, things hadnt ended well but we both agreed we loved each other and agreed to work things out two absolutly amazing weeks went by and it seemed like we were both in the same page but things started taking a turn he started speaking about an open relationship and about being polygamis and then after an argument we had he confesed he had feelings for someone else but told me he wanted to be with me and he didnt want me to give up on us and leaned more towards being with me and that i meant more to him than anyone else but two days after cut off things with me to be with his new partner and now its been over a month and we dont speak mostly becausee not even a week passed and he was posting pictures of him and his new partner kissing and being affectionate (when he wouldnt even hold my hand in public) he sent me a message that i felt patronising but meant well he doesnt follow me on social media but whenever i put anything on my story he sees it and heres where my problem lays, i make this idea in my head that he checks because he cares that he checks becasue he still has feeling for me but i also feel like making hes just trying to mess with my emotions, like he know he has to know that i can see he saw it and that i know he keeps posting pictures with his bf and quoting songs on the caption that used to be our songs what are his intentions what does he hope this will do, and i know no one can answer this other than him but i dont want to hurt anymore
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