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forcefulAcai5064
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Struggling to find a relationship
Relationship Stress / by forcefulAcai5064
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 March 4th, 2025
...See more I've been looking for someone to fall in love with for a long time and haven't had much luck. The last few months I've been putting in more effort, and I thought I had found someone, but just got back from our second date feeling discouraged. It didn't feel like we had any connection at all, despite the effort I've made to get to know him. It makes me wonder if there's something wrong with me, if I should give up on the whole thing. Should I give it more time? I don't know. Just feeling a little down at the moment and not sure what to do next.
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Just want to stop overthinking
20 & Over / by forcefulAcai5064
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 February 18th, 2025
...See more I don't know what it is, but I'll go hang out with friends and I'll do something that isn't wrong necessarily, but I can't tell what people think about how I acted. I want them to think well of me and I hold myself to high standards. They are good friends of mine who wouldn't want me to overthink in this way. I just can't stop myself from replaying certain moments and trying to see what I should have done instead or try to figure out what they were thinking. These moments aren't even very impactful things. I'm sitting here now with a drink just to get my mind to quiet down so I'll be able to sleep. I would like to be able to think about the things I would like to think about instead of having my train of thought yanked onto a different track without my say so.
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I feel like I'm behind in life
Self-Esteem / by forcefulAcai5064
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 January 25th, 2024
...See more I'm turning 30 this year and I feel so behind my peers. I'm working a job that I really enjoy but doesn't pay enough to support myself on my own so I'm living with parents. I've never been in a long term relationship. All of my friends are getting married and buying houses and I'm still here with my parents. They're happy to have me but I feel so much lesser than everyone. Who would want to date someone who can't support herself? That is the thought that goes through my mind. I go out and meet people and I'm trying to get additional income, but sometimes I feel so worthless and ashamed.
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