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friendlyskies2000
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Need help w/ situation !
LGBTQ+ / MOGII Support / by friendlyskies2000
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 April 17th, 2021
...See more Hey, my family and my best friends are gay and I’m super supportive and actually fight people who have opposing views (anti-gay, etc.). So the story is I’m actually straight and not religious but I’m with someone who is religious and thinks that gays are wrong and are sining according to “God’s” eyes. However, he won’t ever be disrespectful to anyone-gay or not. I’ve made it clear to him that I will NOT tolerate disrespect towards my family especially for being gay but I’ve also fought with him on this subject and was on the verge of breaking up with him because he didn’t agree with me. I think that it shouldn’t matter who loves who and everyone should just be supportive about it. However I do realize that this is an imperfect world and that’s unfortunately an unrealistic idea to have in this world when hate and judgment are so common. The reason why I’m writing and sharing this is because I’ve never been with anyone who had an opposing view with me on this and am just wondering if there are ways to accept his religious beliefs even when it feels so wrong. If anyone out there is dealing with a similar situation and wants to share that would be so great too! Literally anything will help and I feel like I just want to know this can workout even though this is a big and serious issue to me. Thanks
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Late night thoughts.. need advice..
Relationship Stress / by friendlyskies2000
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 February 24th, 2021
...See more Hey, a year ago I broke up with my ex. He was my best friend, my shoulder to cry on, my rock, honestly he was my other half. It hurts writing about this because I’m not sure if I still love him. I left him because I decided the relationship was really toxic and he had a lot of growing up to do. I also had a lot of insecurities that I was projecting onto him that I only realize now. Right after we broke up I was super depressed and lost my appetite. I lost weight (the wrong way) and decided to just go on a binge of dating new people and eating more food. I ended up finding a great guy. But we’ve also been having problems. It’s honestly a lot to explain in this post but I feel like I really like him enough to look past all of that but at the same time because of all of the stuff he did/ does makes me miss my ex. After a long and stressful day of school work, I found myself thinking of my ex and decided to stalk him on social media lol which led me to miss him a lot and sometimes wish that I could’ve met him with the “better” version of myself. I also found myself wondering what if I stayed and do I miss him and do I still love him. I don’t know what any of this means. He was my first love so maybe it’s normal to be thinking about him from time to time but I feel guilty because I’m starting something with someone else. Does anyone have any advice on what to do? If you’ve read this far, thank you and I really hope all is well with you.
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