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generousNectarine5761
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Relationship Stress / by generousNectarine5761
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 August 27th, 2025
...See more Thought I would take a little break, children on their summer break, and hoping my head could catch up, hoping things would change, but that’s the thing , hoping and reality are obviously two different things, 19 years I have been with my husband married for one year, as my last post explained (thank you to you all who commented) I feel like I’m all in like I’m trying to sort this, but he still continues to talk to this person online, he says they have not met, but they have vowed to be in each others lives, but he still continues to say he wants us, but is pushing me away, I wish I had the strength to go, I wish I was stronger I don’t recognise this woman looking back at me in the mirror and it’s so painful . All I have ever done was love him, why am I not good enough Sorry for this if it’s too much I understand , I feel very very alone ,.
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Caught my husband
Relationship Stress / by generousNectarine5761
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 August 12th, 2025
...See more Hey everyone , hope your all okay :) Just after advice, a listener ear, maybe someone who’s been through it, or can see different perspectives, I’ve caught my husband talking to another person online months ago, he said it meant nothing, he made two accounts he stopped talking to one person but can’t stop talking to this other person and he’s continuing to do so , has blamed me saying it’s someone to talk to , but he confessed love for this person , but says he wants to stay with me , I’m question everything, my self worth, myself, everything , when he’s on his phone I know it’s to speak with her. I just don’t know how to over come this I have asked him to stop and what it’s doing to me he just says I don’t understand him it’s not like that , when all I have ever tried to be is there for him in so many ways, Any help , advice , anything a chat is helpful to me really struggling Thank you Take care
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