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hardworkingStrawberries2624
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Boyfriend addicted to weed
Addiction Support / by hardworkingStrawberries2624
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 October 17th, 2021
...See more Hi all. My boyfriend of three years has been smoking weed around 3-4 times a night for the past 5 years. He is now trying to quit and its been really hard on both of us. From suicide thoughts, to anger, to just overall sadness, he has felt it all. It is getting really hard to know whether or not my feelings are valid. He is going through so much. He recently relapsed a couple times and i was upset about it because i thought he was doing so well. Now its hard because he barely eats and gets in these sad moods where everything around him is boring and nothing can make him feel happy. Does anyone have experience with this? I just need support at this time cuz idk how to act around him anymore.
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Boyfriend addicted to weed
Relationship Stress / by hardworkingStrawberries2624
Last post
 October 17th, 2021
...See more Hello everyone. I’m really happy to be here and to be able to voice my struggles freely. I am going to try to keep this short and simple bc it can get long. My boyfriend and i have been dating for almost three years. He has always smoked weed and i didnt have that much of a problem with it until i started seeing how much it took over his daily life. He would smoke 3-4 times a night and had been doing that for 5 years. I recently had to leave him in order for him to tell his family. Now his family knows and they are very supportive of trying to help him in any way. I know how hard of a journey this is but what i am having problems with is knowing when to tell him how i am feeling. Today i found out he lied to me about his sobriety and i was so upset. I told him i was upset and then it made him more upset. I don’t know when its appropriate to be honest with my feelings because he is already going through so much. I also dont even know if him relapsing is a good reason for me to be mad. I just dont know what to feel!!! I love him so much and i want to support him but its driving me insane trying to manage my feelings and his.
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Boyfriend addicted to weed
Addiction Support / by hardworkingStrawberries2624
Last post
 October 11th, 2021
...See more Hello everyone. I’m really happy to be here and to be able to voice my struggles freely. I am going to try to keep this short and simple bc it can get long. My boyfriend and i have been dating for almost three years. He has always smoked weed and i didnt have that much of a problem with it until i started seeing how much it took over his daily life. He would smoke 3-4 times a night and had been doing that for 5 years. I recently had to leave him in order for him to tell his family. Now his family knows and they are very supportive of trying to help him in any way. I know how hard of a journey this is but what i am having problems with is knowing when to tell him how i am feeling. Today i found out he lied to me about his sobriety and i was so upset. I told him i was upset and then it made him more upset. I don’t know when its appropriate to be honest with my feelings because he is already going through so much. I also dont even know if him relapsing is a good reason for me to be mad. I just dont know what to feel!!! I love him so much and i want to support him but its driving me insane trying to manage my feelings and his.
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