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helloJet1430
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Rocky start to relationship gives me stress
Relationship Stress / by helloJet1430
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 January 23rd, 2024
...See more I’ve always been a perfectionist. I wanted the fairytale, boy meets girl, love at first sight romance. But I did not get that. my husband was dating around when we met. We became exclusive after 3 dates but in my mind it ruins “perfect”. He also had a lot of training to be done on how to be a good partner. Now, he is an angel. attententive loving and doesn’t ever go out or anything. but our / his past still bothers me daily. How do I move past this? Is it indicative of the future?
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Ghosted by friends of 9 years
Friendship Support / by helloJet1430
Last post
 January 28th, 2024
...See more I’ve been in a large friend group of girls since college. We lived together, partied together, studied abroad together and all lived in the same city after graduating. Over the years it’s been hard for everyone to stay in touch, but my I’m super close with two of the girls together and then another one separately.  The one girl is a little drama prone. Over the years she has picked sporadic fights with one girl or the other and it seems like she is always mad at one person and targets them. It’s been me before but she usually gets over it quickly. Well, I recently got engaged to my boyfriend of a year. Her boyfriend of 5 years proposed a few months later. Ever since he proposed she started being super cold. Then she just ghosted me. Didn’t respond to any of my texts individually or in the group chat for a month. I saw her at an event and she just said “nice to see you”. Very coldly.  it is so hard to process this loss and I don’t even know what I did wrong. I don’t want to beg for closure but I do know she’s going to exclude me from events with my other friends and that breaks my heart too. What do I do!!!?
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