Rocky start to relationship gives me stress
I’ve always been a perfectionist. I wanted the fairytale, boy meets girl, love at first sight romance. But I did not get that.
my husband was dating around when we met. We became exclusive after 3 dates but in my mind it ruins “perfect”. He also had a lot of training to be done on how to be a good partner. Now, he is an angel. attententive loving and doesn’t ever go out or anything.
but our / his past still bothers me daily. How do I move past this? Is it indicative of the future?
@helloJet1430 :)
@helloJet1430
Do you think the fairy tale life happens?
If this bothered you why did you marry him ?
if you spend your life trying to make it fit a script or vision in your head you will end up disappointed several times. Often people meet and one or Both had a past that is OK the choice to be together is building from that moment on not wishing it was perfect from the start.