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...See more My boyfriend and I have had a lot of troubles in the past two months. We've been dating for four months now. It all started when he told me that he once had feelings for his best friend (Male), before we dated, and I knew they had sex multiple times in the summer (He was cheating on his ex back then). He assured me those feelings were gone. It started to haunt me and I started to get obsessively clingy and moody, which I think pushed him away from me. When he hung out with his friend it killed me and I would get upset at him. Last week I found out through his facebook that he was searching up a girl he had been obsessed with two summers ago multiple times. He admitted he still thinks about her, so I broke it off with him. However, I apologized the day after as I realized it was normal to think about other people. However, he told me that he had hooked up with his best friend the night we broke up. He said he was desperate and that afterwards, it made him feel empty and made him realize he had no lingering feelings. He also admitted he had some feelings for him while we were dating, even though he promised me he didn't. He now promises that I am the only one he wants. I want to believe it but I have a hard time trusting him after he lied to me. The image of them together is like a knife to the heart. I told him I could move on since it was in the past but I can't sleep at night. I don't want to leave him because I know we love each other but this is so hard. What do I do??.

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