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Divorce advice
Relationship Stress / by honestGlobe7898
Last post
 April 6th
...See more I’m considering divorce but am naturally scared. I worry about my kids and the impact on them. The one thing that I hope though about is potential to be with someone who also wants to be together. It’s been a very hard last 6-8 years, with the last 1-2 being even more difficult. I hear that divorce is the worst though and I know people who say they were at their lowest (albeit they were the ones being served papers). I just wonder if through divorce though there can be some type of weight lifted? Has anyone been through divorce and, outside of all the logistics of it, kind of lived a more exciting life soon after? I think of just traveling and getting out more, while still taking care of the kids (I’m a dad who does most the kids stuff and a lot of the house stuff, but am in a state where it’s impossible for a man to get full custody) on joint custody. I fear mostly for my kids though and have been trying to ‘wait’ it out but would have a few more years until they’re all at least 18 and able to move on to college. I just feel lost though. We are doing couples therapy again (with a much better therapist albeit), but my wife just still doesn’t seem to show a ton of interest in being together, except when we are in the therapy session, but then it’s just back to normal. I just wondered if there are some more brighter divorce experiences?
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ADHD and Sadness
ADHD Support / by honestGlobe7898
Last post
 February 28th
...See more My wife has ADHD, sometimes she seems very sad and won’t want to talk to me (she’ll tell to others and seems excited about that, like her friends). Is it that a thing with a spouse who has ADHD, like they will be really sad some days and not interested in talking to their partner but have no issue hanging out or talking to their friends?
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