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hughjanus1738
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What do I do?
Relationship Stress / by hughjanus1738
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 July 14th, 2025
...See more Ik this isn’t really about a relationship currently but I really want this to work. This guy added me on *** a little before the last day of school, and we texted a little and then he said “u looked cute today” so automatically I kinda thought hey MAYBE this guy might like u. So we’re sending reels NOT TEXTING. And he sends me a reel and it’s like “is this a bro thing or are we something” and yk as time moves on iv just been trying to talk to him, he’s dry, he responds always right away never on delivered but it just kinda seems like he’s just responding not actually texting back. He does leave me on seen sometimes and he is kinda mean, unless im just sensitive, like today we were playing iMessage games and he sent chess and I asked how to play it and he said “im not ur teacher” and I was like oh? And I posted this new *** and I said as a joke like and repost it and he said “nah” like oh okay. And so I asked my friend who is besties with him if he liked me and he said yes he does, my friend told me not to tell him that I know so I didn’t but it just feels like he doesn’t. But why would he be texting me if he didn’t? I don’t know. I do like him, I’m honestly just yearning for someone to love, to be myself with, I don’t know. What do u guys think?
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Am I doing to much?
General Support / by hughjanus1738
Last post
 June 17th, 2025
...See more Almost a year ago this guy that I had a talking stage with died. And it just hurts because he truly made me feel loved even tho it was long distance. He made me feel pretty even in times where I felt ugly. I feel like I won’t ever meet a guy like him. But I feel like I’m doing to much cuz I didn’t know him for long and we stopped talking for a while, I was planning on talking to him again, then I found out he passed. He was beautiful, inside and out. I still can’t believe it, just looking at the cute videos he used to send me makes me cry. I miss him. Are my feelings valid or am I doing to much😔✊
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Self-Esteem / by hughjanus1738
Last post
 June 25th, 2025
...See more Iv always been insecure about my weight, probably since I was in 3rd grade. But it’s been getting worse, today I got asked for my number obviously as a joke, by someone i literally go to school with, and once I said no thank u they were like “oooo she called u chopped” and he was like “ik ur fatass ain’t talking” like bruh. Iv been feeling good recently and that just really made me feel worse. I never thought I was ugly and that it was just my weight but now Ik I’m definitely wrong. Not only did it ruin my view of myself but it kinda makes me feel like I’m unlovable. Not to be dramatic but I always thought there’s always a person for u but after they asked for my number like that it kinda just shows me maybe I do need to loose weight to be loved by someone.
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