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Love Addiction
Addiction Support / by humorousCircle596
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 August 9th, 2022
...See more Hi everyone! I’ve already posted this thread somewhere else but I am new here, so I don’t know yet how it works and probably I posted it in the wrong space. I received 2 comments under my posts that have been so helpful…So I am trying here because I’ve been not so lucky about the 1-1 chat. I dated a guy 3 weeks ago. We spent a decent time together. He said repeatedly that I was pretty and that we were bonding or spending nice time. Then he said “I just want a friends with benefits kind of thing” and I was like “Jesus Christ not again, why, what’s wrong with me, I always date the same kind of guy”. I am a love addicted (I guess - I got that after my therapy). So a part of me didn’t want to lose the guy, the moment we had together…I slept with him. The sex was awesome and the moment after too. I seemed like there was more than just sex. He was very altruistic and tender. He took me home and he wrote me that my kisses were really great and the date was great too. I was sure that I would not have heard from him anymore and instead he wrote me only 20 minutes from we separate from each other. I wrote him the next morning to answer to his message and the night. I told him that I spent the day thinking about him all day long. And the day after. He answered and I answered back. After that nothing. So I panicked and I told him that friendship with benefits was not for me and that I would have liked to know him better. He said that he was ok with that but that he was not interested to know me better (because of his previously suffering relationship blabla) that the sex with me was amazing but nothing more. Then we start fighting and the conversation ended not very well. This on the chat of a dating app. I removed him from this chat after that. 5 days after I wrote him on instagram that i was very sorry about my behavior but he blocked me even without reading my message. And I was devastated from this…I felt like garbage. Any perspectives or tips, points of views? If something seems not clear I can give other details about it. Thank you all❤️
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Dating struggle / blocked on ig
35 & Over Community / by humorousCircle596
Last post
 October 14th, 2021
...See more I dated a guy 3 weeks ago. We spent a decent time together. He said repeatedly that I was pretty and that we were bonding or spending nice time. Then he said “I just want a friends with benefits kind of thing” and I was like “Jesus Christ not again, why, what’s wrong with me, I always date the same kind of guy”. I am a love addicted (I guess - I got that after my therapy). So a part of me didn’t want to lose the guy, the moment we had together…I slept with him. The sex was awesome and the moment after too. I seemed like there was more than just sex. He was very altruistic and tender. He took me home and he wrote me that my kisses were really great and the date was great too. I was sure that I would not have heard from him anymore and instead he wrote me only 20 minutes from we separate from each other. I wrote him the next morning to answer to his message and the night. I told him that I spent the day thinking about him all day long. And the day after. He answered and I answered back. After that nothing. So I panicked and I told him that friendship with benefits was not for me and that I would have liked to know him better. He said that he was ok with that but that he was not interested to know me better (because of his previously suffering relationship blabla) that the sex with me was amazing but nothing more. Then we start fighting and the conversation ended not very well. This on the chat of a dating app. I removed him from this chat after that. 5 days after I wrote him on instagram that i was very sorry about my behavior but he blocked me even without reading my message. And I was devastated from this…I felt like garbage. Any perspectives or tips, points of views?
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