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PathStep 14 Compassion hearts32 Forum posts5 Forum upvotes8 Current upvotes8 Age GroupAdult Last activeOctober, 2022 Member sinceJuly 11, 2019
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It’s okay to feel it; it’s also okay to let it go

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Feeling lost in flashbacks
Trauma Support / by idkguess
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 September 8th, 2022
...See more TW—It’s been four years… I don’t even know what to call what happened I don’t feel like it fits in a box? I was 17 (almost 18) and he was 24. He was my best friend’s older brother, while he was serving military overseas we started talking and he quickly made it sexual saying he always fantasized about sleeping with his sister friends and there was so much manipulation of saying “you might have a chance if you give me your virginity” and other statements along that line. When he came home 7 months later he told me her wanted to take me on a date, so I skipped school and he picked up and took me to his house. He told me I had until the count of three to pick a room or leave and things progressed from there. He asked if I was sure and I said yes out of fear of loosing him, but I also hesitated and had my legs clenched shut until he pushed them apart. I’ve thought about this every single day for four years, any guidance would be greatly appreciated.
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Advice needed…
Relationship Stress / by idkguess
Last post
 August 14th, 2022
...See more My husband asked for an open relationship… I’m super against it. It’s just not what I believe in. And he knew that when we got married. I’m trying so hard to move past it, but I can’t stop thinking about him wanting to be with other women. I have no clue where to start to heal. Every time I think I’m going to be okay it slip right back to feeling so worthless and just not good enough. My self esteem is shot and I’m losing my mind.
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Abuse? Rape? I
Trauma Support / by idkguess
Last post
 July 11th, 2019
...See more I recently found out that when my parents married my brother would take me out side to play,I was 6. He would pin me to the ground and touch me. And I started talking to my best friends older brother about a year ago while he was in the military. We talked for seven months and when he came home he told me we were going on a date, he really picked me up, Took me in the house and told me to pick a room. So I did, and we started kissing and he asked if I was okay with it going further,I said okay. But as soon as he started going in I told him it hurt and began to close my legs,he pried them back open and continued to force himself inside. I bled for two weeks. I dont know that its considered rape because I originally agreed,but I dont understand and I dont feel safe around most men anymore.
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