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indigoBeing2100
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My bf won’t stop watching thirst traps
Relationship Stress / by indigoBeing2100
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 April 24th, 2025
...See more I will be with my boyfriend for 2 years in August. Throughout our relationship I have checked his phone and have caught him looking at girls on ***/***/***. I’ve told him that I am not comfortable with that and that I find it disrespectful and have told him to stop each time. He says that they’re not “real” because it’s online or that it’s the same as being at the beach (he couldn’t even explain the comparison) I’ve become very insecure when I’m around him because all I can think about is the girls he looks at and how they have unrealistic body’s (surgery). I feel uncomfortable being intimate with him now. 2 weeks ago, I caught it again and he told me his friends had been sending him the videos and then he deleted the messages (I found links in his private browser) as well as an Only Fans page and sex worker accounts on his fb. When I confronted him, he became annoyed and defensive and said he wanted to break up, I broke down and cried for a long time. He ended up making it about him and how I don’t treat him good (he said I don’t pay for anything or plan things or open his door). After I validated his feelings, he asked me to forgive him and asked me to be his gf again. I said yes because I have nowhere to go. We just moved in together in February. I am part time working and full time college student. He pays the rent and groceries and I pay the bills. Currently, he is working out of town and is only home on the weekends so I don’t see him much at the moment. I don’t have the money to leave but it’s a constant emotional and mental battle staying. I love him so so much but I do not want to be with a lustful man.
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Need advice-boyfriend didn’t invite me to thanksgiving
Newbie Hub / by indigoBeing2100
Last post
 December 8th, 2024
...See more Am I wrong for being upset that my boyfriend didn’t invite me to his thanksgiving twice now? We’ve been together for a little over a year now. Last thanksgiving, I wanted to go to meet his family but he never invited me. At first I thought maybe they just wanted a family only thing but I later found out that his family had told him to invite me and asked if I was coming (his sister told me when I saw her the next time I was there to pick him up) I was very upset because I thought he wasn’t really taking me seriously. He kinda invited me to his Christmas last year but he ended up coming to my house in the end. He gave me a promise ring on Christmas. This year, I brought up thanksgiving days before and asked if his family was doing anything. He said he didn’t know. I told him my family wasn’t doing anything. The day before thanksgiving , we were on the phone and he told me his family wasn’t making food for thanksgiving but again, he didn’t invite me or anything. He went to sleep after because it was late. I waited the next day to see if he would say something but he never did. He asked me if I wanted to watch a movie that day and I said “aren’t you eating with your family?” He said yeah and I said I’d have to get ready and go out to eat by myself before I could get him then. He called me dramatic and what not and I asked him why he didn’t invite me. He said he assumed I wouldn’t want to go. I brought up last year and he just apologized and asked if I wanted to go this year. I told him it doesn’t seem like he wants me there so I didn’t go. When I picked him up to go to the movies, I saw there was a whole party going on. When he came out and I asked who was there he said his family and there’s people that he doesn’t even know. I got upset over how people he doesn’t know got an invite but me as his girlfriend didn’t. I cried and told him it’s just any other day for me. It bugs me a lot and makes me feel like he’s embarrassed of me (I’ve never had anyone that didn’t want to have me around their family) or he’s just not taking me seriously but he also spends sooo much money on me and talks about getting married, getting a house and having kids but he won’t even invite me to his family functions? Am I over thinking it?
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