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indigoMaple3268
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Male sixty seven Years old married twenty nine years More of every spiritualist than a religious person, but I embrace all deep thoughts on religion I am currently working full-time and not planning to retire.

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What the f@#$%
Personality Disorders Support / by indigoMaple3268
Last post
 June 30th
...See more What's wrong with me? How do I know that I don't have a disorder? How do I know that I do have a disorder? My wife is constantly telling me that I am a malignant narcissist I don't know if I'm a malignant narcissist, some of the things that she calls me says I do tracks. That's true, but I don't ever mean to hurt her or to harm to her. I'm just trying to live a life with her. And I feel she fights me at every turn, then she feels I'd fight her at every turn, I can't talk with her. She only yells, because she thinks I am trying to Narcissistically behave my way out of the situation and I don't know if it's true at this point I don't know if I'm not being misrepresented so much that I'm starting to believe in, I don't know where to turn and I don't know who to talk to about it and I don't know how to go forward here. We're about to lose an apartment. She feels like I'm not protecting her when I'm telling her the truth of what can happen.We're not going to end up on the street but she doesn't want to live in my apartment.I don't knowWhat's wrong with me? How do I know that I don't have a disorder? How do I know that I do have a disorder? My wife is constantly telling me that I am a malignant narcissist I don't know if I'm a malignant narcissist, some of the things that she calls me says I do tracks. That's true, but I don't ever mean to hurt her or to harm to her. I'm just trying to live a life with her. And I feel she fights me at every turn, then she feels I'd fight her at every turn, I can't talk with her. She only yells, because she thinks I am trying to Narcissistically behave my way out of the situation and I don't know if it's true at this point I don't know if I'm not being misrepresented so much that I'm starting to believe in, I don't know where to turn and I don't know who to talk to about it and I don't know how to go forward here. We're about to lose an apartment. She feels like I'm not protecting her when I'm telling you the truth of what can happen. We're not going to end up on the street but she doesn't want to live in my apartment, I don't know, thanks.
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Narcissist and i might be married to one
Relationship Stress / by indigoMaple3268
Last post
 May 18th
...See more Hi I have been told by my wife that I am a narcissist. I didn't know exactly what a narcissist is. It is only thru my wife that I see what she is talking about. I have asked my last therapist if I was a narcissist and she did not think that I was but here I am I have un resolved arguments wife my wife . Because she believes me to be a narcissist a covert one at that. She has learned the terminology thru a you tube pod caster by the name of Durvasu Ramani. An expert on narcissist behaviors and their dangers and tell tale signs. I can see the things that my wife is posting our to me but she will not see the abuse that I am being put thru by her. If I talk I am lying,manipulating, or twisting lo gic. We cannot get through a weekend with out fighting and me walking out to not be in a fight . Which is where I am fight now. I walked out because she insisted on my reconciling the monthly expenses and when I found holes and started to talk about it she kept interrupting and asking when was I going to come to the plate with the answers. And there it starts. I pretty sure I'm being baited but I cannot have conversation with her unless it is approved her. Anyway this is mor healthy I cannot talk with her for these reason it affect my sleep which affects me at work. We have our financial problems we doing our best to work thru but we are not getting there any more over the past few months. I am always the bad guy and am treated like a lier, a theif, a sexual perverted man and and sub human being.
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