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jbds2014
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He chose family over me
Relationship Stress / by jbds2014
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 August 1st, 2022
...See more My boyfriend of 8 years left me 2 weeks ago due to his sister becoming pregnant. Unfortunately 2 years into our relationship me and his family had a falling out. 6 years on and they still held a grudge towards me I’ve tried holding out many olive branches but nothing seems to have worked. I started a relationship up with his mother a year ago going out for meals once a month trying to get back on track with her after many years of not talking and not being involve in my boyfriends family occasions. I think she didn’t really want to do this as it was a very false atmosphere I could feel every time I was sat round the table with her. My boyfriend announced his sister was pregnant 5 weeks ago to me and said he didn’t know how it was going to work between us as she told him I was not allowed anywhere near the new baby coming or the family. He said he can’t continue our relationship as we would all be a broken family. I told him I want to be alert of your family I want to talk and make amends but they point blank said no. So he decided to pack his stuff and leave to go back to his family’s house. I’m distraught and absolutely heartbroken, all the memories we shared all the laughter we did I can’t help but have pure pain and suffering with missing him so much. There was no build up to the breakup he just came home after having a chat with his sister and left. How do I ever get I’ve this my first love I can’t seem to move on everyday seems to be getting harder and harder. I love him more than anything in this world. We made plans to move out at the end of the year my whole world seems to of fallen from under my feet. He has changed his number and have had no contact for 2 weeks. Why do I feel like I’m clinging on to something that I don’t think will ever come back. sincerely heartbroken
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