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Should I stay, or should I go 🎶
Relationship Stress / by karmstro3
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 July 26th, 2019
...See more 4 years ago I met my current boyfriend, we were together 2 years, broke up for just under a year while I was in school out of state, then got back together again, and that is where we are now. He is an amazing, loving person. He treats me better than anyone ever has or likely will. But for the past few months I haven't felt happy... he's my best friend. We've been doing the long distance thing, so I've been telling myself that's what's causing these feelings, but I'm not sure anymore. I feel so much guilt and doubt about us. I'm very comfortable with him and I know staying together is the safe option. But I feel like I will never be anything more than that. I'm not challenged or motivated. Everything feels flat, and as much as I love talking to him and spending time with him, there's zero physical, intimate attraction. I'm moving home next month, and the plan was to move in with him. But the more I think about it the more confused I get. After all this time it should be easy, and I feel like I should know by now... the fact that I don't makes me wonder if we aren't right for each other. He is convinced that I'm the love of his life, but I don't know if I feel the same way... I can't imagine leaving him, but a big part of me also wonders if there is something more I should be chasing. Thoughts?
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