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lau0111
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PathStep 11 Compassion hearts17 Forum posts4 Forum upvotes2 Current upvotes2 Age GroupAdult Last activeAugust, 2020 Member sinceMarch 23, 2019
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not knowing if i
LGBTQ+ / MOGII Support / by lau0111
Last post
 August 12th, 2019
...See more Hello! Ive never been attracted physically or sexually to people before, however Ive never felt like identifying as asexual because theres always the possibility that I might be attracted to someone later. Ive found myself enjoying nsfw content (mostly about women) or fantasizing about women, and my only dating experience (which was with a guy) made me realize that I am not sexually attracted to men, but I believe I can have romantic feelings for them. However, I have never had a crush on anybody, nor have I felt attracted to anyone. Which makes me confused: am I a (biromantic? panromantic?) asexual, or am I just a lesbian that tries to convince herself she feels attracted to men to not feel excluded? (I should also add that I rarely find boys good looking, whereas I often find girls pretty.) Thank you in advance for your answers!
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How to move on?
Relationship Stress / by lau0111
Last post
 June 4th, 2019
...See more My very first romantic relationship ended a couple months ago. It all started as my boyfriend was too busy with school and could barely find time for me. Being optimistic and in love, I refused to break up with him and believed that our love was strong enough to overcome this situation. Ive tried so many things to not feel bothered, by keeping myself busy, going out, sleeping, but no matter how much I tried to convince myself I was okay, I felt broken inside. Im bad at confrontations so I let many hurtful things he did to me slide, but after a few months I tried telling him how much I was hurting, in hope he would try to fix things and make me feel better. However, my attempt barely worked and it tooks me five or six more attempts to realize he just didnt want to change. We broke up after 7 months, on a mutual agreement. Its been two months, and I still am not over it. We havent spoken since, and I removed him from my social media and deleted his number, pictures, etc. I dont think I would want to date him again, but its painful to let go of a relationship in which I had so much hope. I let myself hurt for too long but never got the reward. How could I get over him completely? I have been feeling down for the past two months, I have no energy, I am unable to concentrate and I just havent felt like myself in a long time.
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