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Boyfriend concerns
Women's Issues / by librastar29
Last post
 March 7th
...See more I just wanted to come on here and discuss some feelings. Yesterday my boyfriend and I were watching a show where one of the female main characters was upset about something her boyfriend was doing. In the way the show was portraying the situation, I had really respected how the character was asking others for advice, setting boundaries with her boyfriend and being honest and brave about how she felt. While this was playing out, my boyfriend kept mentioning that this character was being “psychotic”. I didn’t really respond because i didn’t want to start anything, but it made me feel uncomfortable the way he would use such language to describe a young girl who was trying to navigate how to feel in her situation. Awhile ago, I played some video games with my boyfriend and his friends, and they invited me into their *** chats. And today I looked through one of them and i noticed my boyfriend had sent a gamer girls twitch profile in the chat and some of his friends responses were kinda mean. In other words, i think they were making fun of her body… Im a little worried he is watching this girl for sexual reasons, but also more concerned if he sent that to make fun of her in his chat. He has always been such a sweet guy but i can’t tell if these two instances are a little disrespectful of women? And I don’t want to bring this up to him because im scared he is going to talk to his friends about it or think im crazy
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*trigger warning ‼️ SA* Navigating life after SA
Women's Issues / by librastar29
Last post
 December 1st, 2025
...See more Hi friends, Just coming on here for some advice on a hard subject. I was SAed by my ex boyfriend 6 years ago. I’ve lived so many lives since then, but it follows me. I know it’s nothing you can “get over”, but does anyone have any advice on navigating how to get some of the weight off my shoulders? I started listening to a book this week and hadn’t realized how triggering it was. I stopped reading it but it really did make this week difficult. It does affect my sex drive and my boyfriend is very kind but it is really uncomfortable to talk about and I’ve already made this week hard on us with all my emotions
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OCD podcasts?
OCD & Related Behaviors / by librastar29
Last post
 March 22nd
...See more Hi friends! Does anyone have suggestions for Spotify podcasters (preferably women) who speak about OCD?
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My partner upset me today
Women's Issues / by librastar29
Last post
 November 6th, 2025
...See more Hey everyone. This is very embarrassing to talk about but today my partner and i were having sex. He had known I am on my period right now and thats never really stopped us. In fact, he has made it very clear in the past that us being intimate should not be affected by my period, as long as i am ok with it. However, today we were changing positions and i had noticed there was a decent amount of blood and i immediately apologized and we started to get back to it, but he stopped us and said, "I'm sorry i cant." I apologized again, we cleaned up and i burst into tears. I cried for at least an hour, and he comforted me, cuddled me, and reassured me that everything is okay and he was sorry he upset me. I told him it was okay and I tried my best to act as normal as possible. He left my house and i tried to go on about my day as usual, but to be honest, ive been holding back tears all day, trying to distract myself from how the situation made me feel. Although my partner reassured me he is still attracted to me and isnt disgusted by me, unfortunately, that reassurance didnt make me feel any better about myself. Ive always struggled with gender and body dysphoria and i guess today just stirred up those feelings again. i feel embarrassed, ugly, and disgusted with myself. I am sorry this post is so long, just needed somewhere to put my feelings and im too insecure to talk to anyone in my personal life about it. thanks to anyone who has read this, please respond with any thoughts
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anyone have tips on expressing genderfluidity ?
LGBTQ+ / MOGII Support / by librastar29
Last post
 July 18th, 2024
...See more hi everyone! i am 24 and AFAB, but want to express myself in a less feminine way. please share any tips you have on regards of fashion or body language to present myself in a more neutral way
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