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lostsoul7171
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Relationship Stress / by lostsoul7171
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 December 6th, 2022
...See more Me and my girlfriend have been together for 9 months. I know she is the one and constantly think about us getting married. She lives about an hour away during the week while at school. When visiting I found a toy much bigger than what I am. It’s absolutely killed my self esteem knowing I’ll never be able to compete with that. Also knowing that’s what she desires. I’m fearful that down the road she will crave that desire and I will become useless. How do I get over this? I’m a very goal driven successful person and this is messing with my every day life. I have goals I can reach but constantly am thinking about one thing I can’t change for her which is my size. Any thoughts appreciated thank you.
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Relationship Stress / by lostsoul7171
Last post
 November 30th, 2022
...See more I am a male that has been in a relationship with the woman of my dreams. I think about marrying this woman non-stop. I don’t consider myself below average on the charts but I recently found a toy in her night stand that would put anyone to shame. I can’t get over the fact that she will want more than me sexually after finding that. It makes me want to drink to excess and numb those thoughts. Has anyone else encountered this? Does anyone know how to cope with it?
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