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User Profile: lostsoul7171
lostsoul7171 November 29th, 2022

I am a male that has been in a relationship with the woman of my dreams. I think about marrying this woman non-stop. I don’t consider myself below average on the charts but I recently found a toy in her night stand that would put anyone to shame. I can’t get over the fact that she will want more than me sexually after finding that. It makes me want to drink to excess and numb those thoughts. Has anyone else encountered this? Does anyone know how to cope with it?


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User Profile: MidwesternCalmSeeker
MidwesternCalmSeeker November 30th, 2022

@lostsoul7171

It sounds like you really love this woman. If you are bothered by this, consider discussing it with her. It may feel a little awkward, yet talking about it is certainly better than casting doubt on an otherwise awesome relationship. There are many reasons it may be in her drawer, and in my very personal and humble opinion, the odds are that it has nothing to do with you. Knowing the answer seems like it may be the fastest route to putting your mind at ease.