Toys
Me and my girlfriend have been together for 9 months. I know she is the one and constantly think about us getting married. She lives about an hour away during the week while at school. When visiting I found a toy much bigger than what I am. It’s absolutely killed my self esteem knowing I’ll never be able to compete with that. Also knowing that’s what she desires. I’m fearful that down the road she will crave that desire and I will become useless. How do I get over this? I’m a very goal driven successful person and this is messing with my every day life. I have goals I can reach but constantly am thinking about one thing I can’t change for her which is my size. Any thoughts appreciated thank you.
@lostsoul7171
toys mean nothing so doubt size is important...... they can be helpful when left to taking care of needs yourself but it is NOT a replacement IMO
Having a person to hold and kiss and cuddle is not replaced with a toy believe me i tried found although effective i felt empty because a connection a shared experience is SOOOOO much better
@lostsoul7171
I can see where you are coming from but as a woman who has and uses toys you have nothing to worry about. the real deal is always better! when I use my toys 90% of the time when I do there is no penetration its more about stimulation than penetration. and also the saying bigger is better is absolutely false my husband has a bigger member than my bf but my bf gives me more pleasure its all about how its used so dont let it get to you. be confident in the fact that you are enough. be passionate about being in love with her. those things go alot farther and mean alot more than anything tangible.
@lostsoul7171,
it's just a toy, not a replacement, or competition.