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lovingWriter7520
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PathStep 1 Compassion hearts25 Forum posts8 Forum upvotes14 Current upvotes14 Age GroupAdult Last activeMarch, 2025 Member sinceJuly 30, 2022
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Unknown illness impacting my whole physical and mental wellbeing.
Disability Support / by lovingWriter7520
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 March 18th, 2025
...See more Hi all, I don’t even know where to begin, it’s been a roller coaster. I started with stomach issues in 2019 which they medical profession thought was Crohn’s disease, but they have been unable to find any evidence with countless investigations. Fast for are to 2023 I had the last four months of the year on sick leave with the issue. When I returned to work in 1023, I was doing better, but six weeks later I had sudden onset on peripheral neuropathy. I am not a diabetic and currently there is no reason as to why this is happening. its affected my entire life. I still work but in resisted duties being a fall risk I come home at night so tired I go to bed and I spend the weekends doing nothing as I am so worn out from working, currently I can’t feel from mid thighs down to my toes and from my elbows to my finger tips. I can no longer drive, I fall regularly, and asking is difficult but I’m also stubborn. I’m 42 years old and I feel like I should be 80. metally this has hit me hard in the last week. I have found mys of wishing for MS as this would give me answers, but my biggest fear is there is no reason for this happening, which means they can’t stop it. mentally I am so drained, I don’t know what happened to my life,
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35 & Over Community / by lovingWriter7520
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 October 1st, 2022
...See more I have this total oveewhelming feeling l os unsettledness and feeling list. im going through empty nest which is awful but i can see tge positives in the success of my son. I just feel like my life has lost meaning,. I have a rewarding job but thats feeling empty, my relationship is a mess and so much left unsaid. i have always been the rock to everyone but there’s no one there for me… That is my own doing because I don’t like to talk much. ive lived my life from one drama with family and now I have nothing…. I just want this emptiness to not feel like is.
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Red flags??
Relationship Stress / by lovingWriter7520
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 July 30th, 2022
...See more Hi I’m a 39f and my partner of 8 years is 50m. We have had a rocky relationship, mainly my self doubt, trust issues but we worked our way through it. recently he has had little to no sex drive and I’m the total opposite. But I put it down to getting older etc and accepted it. recently he has started to ask about me as a teenager and what I did with others and to myself and wants details of age and full details of what I did. I thought it was just curiosity and just trying to find out more about me, but it turned him on. for me I’m totally freaked out, I can’t grasp how this has interested him. My guard has shot up as I don’t think this is normal and I don’t know if I’m overreacting? It all feels so wrong…
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