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loyalSugar8608
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Am I afraid of commitment or not into him?
Relationship Stress / by loyalSugar8608
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 April 20th, 2017
...See more Hello all, I have been struggling for awhile now trying to understand how I feel about this guy I have been dating for the past month and a half or so. I really liked him alot when we first started dating without any doubt. We get along perfectly, same values and humor and everything. But the only problem is sometimes I don't feel super attracted to him sexually/physically even though I do find him attractive. Also, usually I feel super connected and happy when I'm with him but sometimes when I am with him I feel foggy and off. Sometimes I get irritated by the dumbest things. It's super hard for me to tell if this is me self sabotaging the relationship because I have never been in a healthy relationship or something good and I don't feel comfortable with it or if this is because I am just not that into him but I'm forcing it. Because vulnerable with him is super hard though as well and sometimes I do think it's the days being vulnerable feels hard that it's hard to be with him... It's been a back and forth for awhile now and I think we both are a little exhausted. I don't want to lose him but I also don't know what to do. Please help?! Thanks!!
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Narcissists..help
Relationship Stress / by loyalSugar8608
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 February 3rd, 2017
...See more Hello all, I am not sure if this is the right place to post it but here it goes. I have been struggling lately after realizing that my dad and many of the people I have dated are narcissts...I have tried for so long to understand why and how people become this way and also what I can do to help a narcissist heal. That was until I realized I cannot do anything and that they do not want to heal. I understand my dad lacks empathy sometimes, pretends to care to get what he wants and uses people. He also does see himself as superior and rarely accepts blame unless he has to and only then to make himself look like a good guy it seems like. But all this aside, I just wonder how can I tell how much of a narcissist he really is? Is there a spectrum? How much of my relationship with him was real? Thanks please feel free to share your own experiences and thoughts would be helpful!
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