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He Cheated
Relationship Stress / by mentalhealthmattersxo
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 June 12th
...See more I caught him last November. He made a profile on a swingers website while he was working away. Swore it never went beyond messages. But he lied about the messages, deleting them all before I could see. Owned up eventually. He vomited, cried, begged at my feet for a second chance. I gave him one, probably because I’m an idiot. But I gave him conditions. No more hard drugs (he had an issue I wasn’t aware off), only local work from now on, and therapy. Start therapy. He left the job, came home. As for the drugs, he’s clean. Therapy though? Nada. I think maybe I was in denial at first. Too scared to lose him that I insulted myself by staying. But as time has gone on, my mood does not seem to be improving. I’m angry, bitter and spiteful. I’m still so torn. I know really, that I should leave. But I can’t. How do I convince myself I should?
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Personality Disorders Support / by mentalhealthmattersxo
Last post
 April 8th, 2022
...See more Hi, all. I’ve lately been wondering if I possibly have BPD, but struggling with approaching my GP for support. how did everyone else take this first step?
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