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My Boyfriend Want to Break-up
Relationship Stress / by moody18
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 January 15th, 2023
...See more Me and my boyfriend have been together 4 years, I’m 22 and he’s 20. Throughout the 4 years we’ve had our ups and downs but we came to the conclusion that we can work on things. For the last 5 months it’s been great, we’ve been communicating more, we fully trust each other and I can see our future looking bright. He’s an electrician and has been for the time we’ve been together, I’ve been at university and I’m currently in my final year. My exams have been in this last week so I’ve been stressing out a lot, but he gives me a lot of support and reassurance that they will be good. Since it’s the beginning of the year he’s been focusing on his eating, going to the gym etc. He has been getting a little agitated with himself as his body isn’t used to this big change. I support him as much as I can, I buy him things for the gym, get things he needs for work, meal preps etc. Since we’ve both had a hard few weeks, we have been bickering more than usual as we’re both in abit of a mood with our personal lives. For example, I was running late to a family dinner last week and we had a bit of a bicker about how I’m always late and I shouldn’t have put my makeup on. We ended up getting there on time and we spoke in the car on the way there. The rest of the day it was like nothing happened. That’s what our “bickering” is like. He told me yesterday that the arguing over the last week has been getting him down, he wants to be alone and break up. I didn’t see it as arguing, more of just being agitated. I knew this spell wouldn’t last long as my exams are completed and I’m looking forward to graduating. We have so many things to look forward to this year, my birthday is in a few days, his is soon too, we’ve booked to go to Amsterdam, we’re going to a lodge for the weekend in April with all my family, I’ll be graduating, we was going to book a holiday for when I graduate too. We’ve spoke about me moving in and things are looking up for us. I honestly just thought that this past week was just abit of a hiccup because of the added stress and how he feels himself about changing his lifestyle for the better. I really don’t know what to do as I love him with all my heart, he’s been there for me through the hardest times and I wouldn’t want to spend the rest of my life with anyone other than him. I know we’re young, but you can’t help who you love. Im hoping he comes round and want to stay together, but one minute he doesn’t want to be with me at all, the next he “want to have a think about it”. I hate the “not knowing” about it and im struggling alot with it. Any advice would be great
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