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niceFan4101
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Relationship Problems Pt2
Relationship Stress / by niceFan4101
Last post
 April 29th, 2025
...See more I am trying to feel more comfortable in my relationship with this girl I've been dating for 8 months now. She has cheated on me twice and each time was for something difficult. The first time she kept it hidden for a week and it was because she wanted to feel loved more and thought I couldn't do that. After she did that I asked after a days if she still had feelings for me, she said yes and broke up with the guy. We got back together but after like a month (like 5 days ago) she cheated on me after she agreed to date someone after that person said they had a crush on them. She almost immediately told me we should be friends because "things are crazy rn". We talked about it and she said she still loved me, and wanted to get back together. At the end of the night I said agreed. Throughout our relationship she told me she's scared of men and what they'd do to her if she said "no", so I'm trying to be more understanding. She also has attention deficit disorder and is medically diagnosed with autism. So whenever she doesn't talk to me for a long time I don't think she's talking to someone else, but sometimes I do think she is because it's already happened twice and I can't help but overthink. I don't want to breakup but I don't want to keep feeling hurt in our relationship. Is there anything I can do that will make me more comfortable and less stressed?
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Relationship Problems
Relationship Stress / by niceFan4101
Last post
 April 27th, 2025
...See more I'm currently dating someone who...feels like to much effort. They cheated on my twice now and although she tells me it'll be different, i feel like they're lying. The biggest reasons we even get back together is because 1. We've with each other through our lowest, and 2. We're both the first person we've been intimate with. She has her own home problems and mainly scared of guys and with saying no to men because what happened in her past, and she also has a.d.d., so I don't think she's like a mean person, or trying to ignore me or sm. But I don't know if I should stay. At this point I'm really trying to be understanding of her past but I can't help but feel hurt. If I stay, how can I be more understanding and be less anxious in our relationship and if I leave, how and why should I do it?
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Ranting I Geuss
Trauma Support / by niceFan4101
Last post
 April 29th, 2025
...See more I've never been professionally examined, or something but people have said i am bipolar, autistic, or I have a.d.d.. I myself don't think I am but I feel like somethings wrong with me. It's not like I don't feel comfortable in my own skin but like I can see what I do and know it's bad, but can't stop it. Sometimes I can't even see what I do. Feel free to comment or ask questions 😁 Also I apologize for anything I said wrong, this is my first thread and first time using this app.
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