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Feelings for cousin... Yeah, it's tough to work on
Relationship Stress / by optimisticBlackberry2807
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 September 4th, 2019
...See more Okay, so on most platforms I just get the "Sweet home Alabama" reaction. I hope here it will be different. After spending a lot of time with my female cousin growing up, some feelings have started forming. Now that we are both grown up, I see her as very attractive. I am in a relationship, so that's all good. Over the course of the past year I started having sexual thoughts about her. She still sits on my lap some times as we did when we were younger, and she hugs me quite long. This causes me to feel very happy with her, but weirded out since it's my cousin. Of course I haven't talked to her about it, because that could be disastrous. I have explained it to my current and past girlfriends and they seem to understand. For me it is just hard to work on.
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